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Feeling22: I just want to get other people's opinions on this. I got my final uni results last Thursday and I'm glad to say I'm finally a qualified Radiographer, I expected my parent's to be happy and at least a little bit proud, but they still don't seem satisfied. I don't get what they're expecting from me and it's put a dampener on my celebrating. Any advice on what to do?
Thank you :)
Thank you :)
Your happiness should not be contingent on what your parents feel or think but it's hard to know your situation from one paragraph. We may have to discuss this further. Perhaps over dinner?
No, seriouly. Well done and don't mind them. Some people have toxic parents and if you are one of those people you definitely need to start making your own life, maybe a long way from them.
Feeling22: I just want to get other people's opinions on this. I got my final uni results last Thursday and I'm glad to say I'm finally a qualified Radiographer, I expected my parent's to be happy and at least a little bit proud, but they still don't seem satisfied. I don't get what they're expecting from me and it's put a dampener on my celebrating. Any advice on what to do?
Thank you :)
Thank you :)
Is it possible they have something else on their minds? something bothering them?. Are you sure it's the actual results you got that's the problem?
facetowardsfront: Especially small-minded people on forums
Or anywhere for that matter...facetowardsfront: Your happiness should not be contingent on what your parents feel or think but it's hard to know your situation from one paragraph. We may have to discuss this further. Perhaps over dinner? No, seriouly. Well done and don't mind them. Some people have toxic parents and if you are one of those people you definitely need to start making your own life, maybe a long way from them.
Thank you :)
Feeling22: Thank you for that :)
Think i'll try it :)
Think i'll try it :)
What sort of support did your parents show you last December? It could be related to that. They could be a bit small minded when it comes to things like that.
snowlynx: Is it possible they have something else on their minds? something bothering them?. Are you sure it's the actual results you got that's the problem?
They've been worried about my results since I done the exams and they were worried that I'd have to repeat and all the extra cost and what not of going back to London for another year... Everything else seems fine with them, their routine's haven't changed, I just don't get it... I'd have been happy with a "Congratulations, well done" haha
MADDOG69: What sort of support did your parents show you last December? It could be related to that. They could be a bit small minded when it comes to things like that.
My parents dont know about what happened in December.... I can't bring myself to tell them since it happened at Uni and I'm an only child....
In response to: I just want to get other people's opinions on this. I got my final uni results last Thursday and I'm glad to say I'm finally a qualified Radiographer, I expected my parent's to be happy and at least a little bit proud, but they still don't seem satisfied. I don't get what they're expecting from me and it's put a dampener on my celebrating. Any advice on what to do?
Thank you :)
Thank you :)
prob best to start a bit of dialogue concerning these..
clear the air..ask them.
and remember u study and get a career and things for yourself not for others expectations of you ..you are your own person ..ur life is exciting and ahead of you and no matter what is expected..only u have to make you happy, only you have the ability to make you happy.
im sure your parents want you happy..you make you happy, then everyone gets what they expect.
Feeling22: I can't bring myself to tell them
Why not? Are you afraid of their reaction?
fifitheminx: prob best to start a bit of dialogue concerning these..
clear the air..ask them.
and remember u study and get a career and things for yourself not for others expectations of you ..you are your own person ..ur life is exciting and ahead of you and no matter what is expected..only u have to make you happy, only you have the ability to make you happy.
im sure your parents want you happy..you make you happy, then everyone gets what they expect.
clear the air..ask them.
and remember u study and get a career and things for yourself not for others expectations of you ..you are your own person ..ur life is exciting and ahead of you and no matter what is expected..only u have to make you happy, only you have the ability to make you happy.
im sure your parents want you happy..you make you happy, then everyone gets what they expect.
This is exactly what my friend's at uni said to me haha! Thank you so much :)
Feeling22: Yeah I really am, just don't wanna let them down and stuff.
Yeah, I understand that. Well it's time to start doing stuff for yourself and not be worried.
Feeling22: I just want to get other people's opinions on this. I got my final uni results last Thursday and I'm glad to say I'm finally a qualified Radiographer, I expected my parent's to be happy and at least a little bit proud, but they still don't seem satisfied. I don't get what they're expecting from me and it's put a dampener on my celebrating. Any advice on what to do?
Thank you :)
Thank you :)
Look they might just have expected their only daughter to be doing something other than making radios for the rest of her life! But sure if that's what you want to do, do it!! You must at the end of the day do what you love to do!
By the way, what happened last December??
mr1983: Look they might just have expected their only daughter to be doing something other than making radios for the rest of her life! But sure if that's what you want to do, do it!! You must at the end of the day do what you love to do!
By the way, what happened last December??
By the way, what happened last December??
I think you may have got my job a little confused
..... radiographers x-ray people :).... had a little trip to A&E for an o/d
Feeling22: I think you may have got my job a little confused ..... radiographers x-ray people :)....
had a little trip to A&E for an o/d
had a little trip to A&E for an o/d
a question for ya..
if one of your parents O/d'd would you like them to hide it from you ...so you wouldnt feel let down?
Feeling22: I think you may have got my job a little confused ..... radiographers x-ray people :)....
had a little trip to A&E for an o/d
had a little trip to A&E for an o/d
What exactly did you O/D on! I wouldn't be too worried about that. I've been close to o/d on many substances over the last ten years! It happens!!
Feeling22: I think you may have got my job a little confused ..... radiographers x-ray people :)....
had a little trip to A&E for an o/d
had a little trip to A&E for an o/d
I bet you have seen some monstrous mickeys so in your line of work!!
Feeling22: I just want to get other people's opinions on this. I got my final uni results last Thursday and I'm glad to say I'm finally a qualified Radiographer, I expected my parent's to be happy and at least a little bit proud, but they still don't seem satisfied. I don't get what they're expecting from me and it's put a dampener on my celebrating. Any advice on what to do?
Thank you :)
Thank you :)
If its bothering you that much just say it to them. That's the only way you will find out. Maybe they are just the reserved type
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Thank you :)