When a relatioship ends is it better to remember the good moments only or not? (11)
AlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts...and how easy is for someone to remember the good part of his/her girlfriend/boyfriend?
Good memories will always stay with you. 
In addictive abusive relationships the good gets remembered.. thats why its a pattern hard to break.... they keep getting back together.
In a "normal" relationship.... unfortunately the bad is usually remembered.
Humans seem to have a problem with ending a mutually unsatisfactory relationship in a humane manner... and remembering the general tone of their feelings.... the happy, the sad, the sublime, and the ridiculous... all of it.
In a "normal" relationship.... unfortunately the bad is usually remembered.
Humans seem to have a problem with ending a mutually unsatisfactory relationship in a humane manner... and remembering the general tone of their feelings.... the happy, the sad, the sublime, and the ridiculous... all of it.
You are right!!! But i think i remember everything from my last relationship...And i don't regret for it...I know it's difficult but i 've done it.
Avoid getting addicted to 'Love' .. Love but don't fall in 'Love' .. everything in moderation .
The problem is , even I , don't follow my own advice .
The problem is , even I , don't follow my own advice .
good memories will always stay withyou,,,they are just like photos ....stuck in one's memories, but bring light in hours of darkness but unfortunately even bad ones are engraved in ones memories,,,,they are there where one should not venture...
both add to a life of experience,
both add to a life of experience,
You always surprise me YamiYami!!! Well almost no one follows his own advices!!!! How this happens, honestly i don't know.
Well almost no one follows his own advices!!!! How this happens, honestly i don't know. Good answer! If some memories are really bad, one can try hypnosis to try and erase them...but this works for only several weeks and one must go back to enforce the wiping out; sometimes several times, but with time they do lose their effects and fade into oblivion only to be re-called in those proverbial "long nights of despair" that afflict all of from time to time...
Now that sounds realy nice.... Yes, I often wondered howcome, when thre used to be love... and then its gone..... that the other person is just so anti, and aggresive? Writing or saying "thank you", would make all the difference to the ongoing process of life. Belushi, you sound like a nice person, to do that.
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