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chatonlyman2: Is finding out your so called girlfriend logged on to another dating site today a bad sign?I want as many opinions as possible.
Thanks.
Thanks.
hiya, chat
if you are planning to be a couple, you (both) have to be able/learn to fix problems, extrenal and internal, together...
excluding candle lights dinners and walks in the sunset on the beach
the capacity of solving little, bigger and big problems is essential for any lasting relationship therefore, in my opinion, she is the person you should talk to...
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Girljuice: I wonder why you are spying on her in the first place? Are you the jealous and insecure type? Do you behave like this in all your relationships? This behaviour could be very dangerous to your own health. How would you like it if she spyed on you? Or peeps in your wallet?
On the other side of the coin, has she ever given you reason to mistrust her? If she hasn't, then you need to take a self-inventory. But if she has been dishonest or untrustworthy then she really may not be the one for you anyway.
How did you know she was signed-up on another site? Was she honest enough to disclose this to you or did your investigative skills pay off?
I have issues with trust and yes do to my poor choices in life.yes I should have simply kept my child as a newborn and not have her mother in my life. A very regretfull thing and yes I am a bit of a mess lol. I am in heaven talking to my friend and I am just terrified of getting hurt one more time lol. I just need more time talking to her and I should be good to go. I am simply just worrying and I hope she forgives this part of me. I do however recover quickly and try my best not to show her this emotion.On the other side of the coin, has she ever given you reason to mistrust her? If she hasn't, then you need to take a self-inventory. But if she has been dishonest or untrustworthy then she really may not be the one for you anyway.
How did you know she was signed-up on another site? Was she honest enough to disclose this to you or did your investigative skills pay off?
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Talk to her my friend there mit be nothing to it.Good luck keep your chine up.
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In response to: Is finding out your so called girlfriend logged on to another dating site today a bad sign?I want as many opinions as possible.
Thanks.
Thanks.
What is a so called girlfriend?
Either she is or she isn't your girlfriend.
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Scott1812: Talk to her my friend there mit be nothing to it.Good luck keep your chine up.
Thanks. it is me. I just need time to heal with this amazing lady.------ This thread is Archived ------
Ccincy: What is a so called girlfriend? Either she is or she isn't your girlfriend.
thanks C. but you haven't answered the question.------ This thread is Archived ------
chatonlyman2: Is finding out your so called girlfriend logged on to another dating site today a bad sign?I want as many opinions as possible.
Thanks.
Thanks.
I've actually been talking to a guy on another dating site and he admits that he's talking to a couple of other girls...first of all, I don't care just for the fact we've never actually met, however I have to love and appreciate his honesty...we talk via phone almost everyday....looking forward to the day of actually meeting...
but if you guys have met and are actually GF/BF then I think it's very wrong...a bad way to start off on the trust factor
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chatonlyman2: Is finding out your so called girlfriend logged on to another dating site today a bad sign?I want as many opinions as possible.
Thanks.
Thanks.
oh just one more thing I want to spat out lol...if YOU weren't logged on to another site, how would you know she was? so what's the difference if she's logged in if you are too? why are you logged in?
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chatonlyman2: She is on this site and in another country. I am not on the other site but can still view who is on. She is and has not logged on to that site in over 30 days.
Im not the most trusting soul and its making me wonder?
Im not the most trusting soul and its making me wonder?
If there's no trust then it's not a relationship is it?
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SoonerGal: I've actually been talking to a guy on another dating site and he admits that he's talking to a couple of other girls...first of all, I don't care just for the fact we've never actually met, however I have to love and appreciate his honesty...we talk via phone almost everyday....looking forward to the day of actually meeting...
but if you guys have met and are actually GF/BF then I think it's very wrong...a bad way to start off on the trust factor
We have not met either and our conversations have been awesome. I am simply damaged but repairable. I know its weird but I have had an incredible life. truly incredible.but if you guys have met and are actually GF/BF then I think it's very wrong...a bad way to start off on the trust factor
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Obstinance_Works: Whatever you do don't talk to her about it yet, wait and see what she does when she doesn't know that you are watching.
Then he's just as sneaky as she is.
Chat, ask her point blank why she is on that site
She will ask you.....how do you know she's on that site
It will become a game of assumptions and accusations from both of you
Get it out in the open. Don't "wonder" why. Find out.
The big question is......why did YOU go to that site???
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chatonlyman2: I have issues with trust and yes do to my poor choices in life.yes I should have simply kept my child as a newborn and not have her mother in my life. A very regretfull thing and yes I am a bit of a mess lol. I am in heaven talking to my friend and I am just terrified of getting hurt one more time lol. I just need more time talking to her and I should be good to go. I am simply just worrying and I hope she forgives this part of me. I do however recover quickly and try my best not to show her this emotion.
I am very sad for you. These emotions are very tiring, I'm sure. Try to learn to trust,, you will be a much happier/healthy man.
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sorry but Im not answering questions here
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Girljuice: I am very sad for you. These emotions are very tiring, I'm sure. Try to learn to trust,, you will be a much happier/healthy man.
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chatonlyman2: We have not met either and our conversations have been awesome. I am simply damaged but repairable. I know its weird but I have had an incredible life. truly incredible.
how can you be damaged? the only thing you could possibly be damaged from is the image or idea you have created in your own mind, you might meet her and she maybe a amazon woman...or you just might not click at all...but back to you, why were you logged on? just snooping? maybe that's what she was doing, snooping
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SoonerGal: how can you be damaged? the only thing you could possibly be damaged from is the image or idea you have created in your own mind, you might meet her and she maybe a amazon woman...or you just might not click at all...but back to you, why were you logged on? just snooping? maybe that's what she was doing, snooping
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chatonlyman2: could be Im guessing Im gonna find out
good for you....best to get all the yuck out in the open at the beginning
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chatonlyman2: I have issues with trust and yes do to my poor choices in life.yes I should have simply kept my child as a newborn and not have her mother in my life. A very regretfull thing and yes I am a bit of a mess lol. I am in heaven talking to my friend and I am just terrified of getting hurt one more time lol. I just need more time talking to her and I should be good to go. I am simply just worrying and I hope she forgives this part of me. I do however recover quickly and try my best not to show her this emotion.
Okay, I won't ask you any questions
But I do know where you're coming from on the trust issue.
I met someone on here 8 months ago. We emailed every day since then. Both of us trusted each other 99%. When we finally met, a week ago, we now put 100% trust in each other. The problem was meeting on the internet that leaves room for suspicion.
I know how you're feeling now. The only suggestion I can give you is to do what I did the last 8 months. Talk to her about your suspicions. Don't hold it in. If she's on the up and up she will get into a conversation about what she really wants.
The worse thing you can do to yourself and the relationship is not communicate. A relationship isn't just about love. It's about the real world....from day to day.
Get it out in the open Chat. I asked him a lot of questions and he always responded. If she wants you in her life she will come through with honest answers.
Don't give up on her yet...
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SoonerGal: good for you....best to get all the yuck out in the open at the beginning
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On the other side of the coin, has she ever given you reason to mistrust her? If she hasn't, then you need to take a self-inventory. But if she has been dishonest or untrustworthy then she really may not be the one for you anyway.
How did you know she was signed-up on another site? Was she honest enough to disclose this to you or did your investigative skills pay off?