If You Found Out..part 2 (6)

Oct 25, 2013 6:28 AM CST If You Found Out..part 2
Now for the other side of it...

Let's say you found out that you were a child switched at birth, your parents refused all access and contact with your biological parents when you were a nipper and raised you as their own...

Would you want to meet your biological parents?? would you be annoyed that you were lied to and not given the choice or chance to meet your biological parents at a young age?? and would you feel you were living a lie...

I've a lot of time on my hands waiting to go to Australia haha and used to know somebody in a similar situation..
Oct 25, 2013 6:35 AM CST If You Found Out..part 2
mcattack: Now for the other side of it...

Let's say you found out that you were a child switched at birth, your parents refused all access and contact with your biological parents when you were a nipper and raised you as their own...

Would you want to meet your biological parents?? would you be annoyed that you were lied to and not given the choice or chance to meet your biological parents at a young age?? and would you feel you were living a lie...

I've a lot of time on my hands waiting to go to Australia haha and used to know somebody in a similar situation..

Yeah I'd think they were terrible in not letting me meet my real parents.
Oct 25, 2013 6:45 AM CST If You Found Out..part 2
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
happens to most kids..they think daddys a hero and mommy can cook...and santa has a red hat wink

then they grow up.laugh

No i wouldnt feel like its a lie,Im assuming you have a happy enough childhood in this scenario, then what are you being cheated of..parents are only human and do that they think is right at the time.
Oct 25, 2013 6:54 AM CST If You Found Out..part 2
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
fifitheminx:

No i wouldnt feel like its a lie,Im assuming you have a happy enough childhood in this scenario, then what are you being cheated of..parents are only human and do that they think is right at the time.


forgot to add..

this would be the conclusion id come to, after my hissy fit..telling everyone they are dead to me...cooling down then having a nice lil crylaugh
Oct 25, 2013 12:07 PM CST If You Found Out..part 2
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
mcattack: Now for the other side of it...

Let's say you found out that you were a child switched at birth, your parents refused all access and contact with your biological parents when you were a nipper and raised you as their own...

Would you want to meet your biological parents?? would you be annoyed that you were lied to and not given the choice or chance to meet your biological parents at a young age?? and would you feel you were living a lie...

I've a lot of time on my hands waiting to go to Australia haha and used to know somebody in a similar situation..


Was it you conversing
Oct 25, 2013 1:46 PM CST If You Found Out..part 2
Torless
TorlessTorlessChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand9 Threads 1,499 Posts
Hmm they may have had their reasons, and I am sure they loved the child they have. Its a natural curiosity to want to know. But, sometimes it may not all be as rosey as you think on the other side.
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