Local or long distance please? ( Archived) (3)

Dec 20, 2013 8:10 PM CST Local or long distance please?
Ziusudra
ZiusudraZiusudraHernando, Florida USA4 Threads 162 Posts
Ever notice that people all over the CS universe that those who live long distance get along better than local people?
I find most local women tend to block local people or even delete their profile altogether once they make contact with a local guy only to avoid further contact. Kind of contradictory when complaining about wanting a friend up close and personal but choose not to associate with anybody up close and personal. As for long distance they complain they want someone up close but after considering the distance they ultimately bail out as well.
This site should renamed to "connecting isolationists!!" rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 21, 2013 1:26 PM CST Local or long distance please?
In response to: Ever notice that people all over the CS universe that those who live long distance get along better than local people?
I find most local women tend to block local people or even delete their profile altogether once they make contact with a local guy only to avoid further contact. Kind of contradictory when complaining about wanting a friend up close and personal but choose not to associate with anybody up close and personal. As for long distance they complain they want someone up close but after considering the distance they ultimately bail out as well.
This site should renamed to "connecting isolationists!!"


Interesting, you are not all that far from me. Your only a year younger than my choice of youngest I would date. However no photo of you. That may be why ladies are not communicating with you. Why not put on a photo or 2? Have a blessed day!wine
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Dec 21, 2013 3:52 PM CST Local or long distance please?
Mark_The_Man
Mark_The_ManMark_The_ManProvo, Utah USA2 Threads 1 Polls 6 Posts
Ziusudra: Ever notice that people all over the CS universe that those who live long distance get along better than local people?
I find most local women tend to block local people or even delete their profile altogether once they make contact with a local guy only to avoid further contact. Kind of contradictory when complaining about wanting a friend up close and personal but choose not to associate with anybody up close and personal. As for long distance they complain they want someone up close but after considering the distance they ultimately bail out as well.
This site should renamed to "connecting isolationists!!"


Have you noticed though, that there's hardly any chance for most long-distance people to actually interact one with another? It's easy to be steadfast soulmates when literally nothing is on the wire. People close by are often much more shy and reserved because there suddenly is a very distinct possibility of meeting up with someone they contact, and dealing the all the joys, stresses, happiness, misery, fear and happiness that accompanies it.

You see, to me 'getting along' is really defined as two people who interact with each other over a period of time and develop a mutually held respect, maybe even felicity. It's not something that can be held in its full extent by people who have never met, never truly seen the other in action.
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