mnowsa: I never never lie....is something wrong with me?
Yeah, the ability to lie is a proven sign of intelligence. So, the question is: did/do you chose not to lie, or are you unable to create the other "world". ?
Katiko: Yeah, the ability to lie is a proven sign of intelligence. So, the question is: did/do you chose not to lie, or are you unable to create the other "world". ?
To lie to someone, especially someone you Love is one of the worst things people do to one another. Nothing to do with intelligence.
Katiko: Yeah, the ability to lie is a proven sign of intelligence. So, the question is: did/do you chose not to lie, or are you unable to create the other "world". ?
yea...pls tell that to my mother and see how she "roasts" you in an oven...
pedalguy59: Then don't put the effort to try, it will complicate your life.
yes...that's why i am not willing to lie unless it is really a life and death situation. And thanks god that my life is really as easy as a "pecan pie" as opposed to some "american pie"
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
Katiko: Yeah, the ability to lie is a proven sign of intelligence. So, the question is: did/do you chose not to lie, or are you unable to create the other "world". ?
Yeah, well i don't to accidentially date a sociopath. A friend of mine in Vienna got me to join the site specifically to look at the mens profiles who lied through their teeth just to get to meet her. Now she's very liberated, so when a bloke turned up 10 years older than she expected it was shall we say confusing.
Firstly it shows your dishonest. Secondly you might not even recognise them, and thirdly it gives you an insight into their personality, which is to put it politely, superficial.
Now i take people as i find them, because i know all too well that when it comes to anything online, peoples main concept is "their needs"......as if income, interests or someones Star Sign are remotely relevent, or important.
I only want to date Libra folk, who are between 38-49, are redheaded, who are librarians,whos favorite hobby is unicycling. If you approach life like that you are destined to be disappointed.
If people reacted normally, using actual socialskills, and went out for coffee a concert and viewed people as new friends it would be then far more natural to see if you had a spark, and found them interesting enough to want to meet again.
Displaying zero personality on a forum will not display any form of character, wit or do anything for you. But considering how few use the forums it's a stagnant pool where it's apparent some are just here to argue or flex their ego, or English skills.
For me, i say good luck to them, and i sit back watching some posterers with ranging emotions from contempt to feeling sorry for them. Anyone who is none English speaking, the site maybe useful for practicing your English, but the replies you might get might be in poor English. At least it's free!
Well I agree age needs to be honest, +/- 3 years anyway. Really we just waste everyone's time by claiming an age more than 10 years off the mark. Too old, and the female is not fertile, so why is she wasting the time of a guy seeking a mom for children he doesn't have yet? Too young and she has nothing to offer in terms of life experience or maturity for an older man seeking a companion. True for the men also. No young woman dreams of being done by someone who looks or smells like her grandfather. No sane 45+ year old woman has any interest in someone barely old enough to shave and who has yet to learn how to hold a job.
Social Status? Well I guess since the OP is in a place that has such a thing it may be important to them. Their problem is here in this country there is no such thing. All are more or less equal and the only division is wealth. However as most of those who have money they made themselves can attest, wealth can be fleeting. So some people go up and down in wealth as society changes and events happen, so again, everyone is equal. Lots of folks here who once owned fancy houses and extensive lands suddenly find themselves living in low rent trailer parks or furnished rooms. Lots of people here who grew up in low rent places with crumbling plaster and murders every two or three weeks, today they live in fancy mansions on 20 acre lots. Next year? Who knows? So we don't have social status. We have nice folk and not nice folk. Whether or not there exists a middle ground is a debate.
What's my financial status? Hmm, I ate 3 meals yesterday, I own a vehicle and I have a roof over my head. What else is there?
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Yeah, the ability to lie is a proven sign of intelligence.
So, the question is: did/do you chose not to lie, or are you unable to create the other "world". ?