Married "Online" Friends.... (8)

Dec 13, 2006 7:59 AM CST Married "Online" Friends....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
What do you think of married men/women who come online to "just make friends"...do you believe their intention is just that??




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Dec 13, 2006 8:40 AM CST Married "Online" Friends....
Spagooch
SpagoochSpagoochSt. Catharines, Canada21 Threads 387 Posts
Gotta be other agendas, no? This is a dating site. For folks looking to make friends of have a pen pal, their are Friend sites. They are just as common and numerable as dating sites. Im not saying everyone in that category has other agendas. I would certainly be wary though, of someone's motive if in fact they were married and active on a site such as this.uh oh
Dec 13, 2006 9:31 AM CST Married "Online" Friends....
reg1957
reg1957reg1957Belleville, Ontario Canada8 Threads 141 Posts
I agree completely
Dec 13, 2006 4:27 PM CST Married "Online" Friends....
John1966
John1966John1966Calgary, Alberta Canada16 Threads 143 Posts
No, i dont believe that, Ursilla...sorry...thumbs down
Dec 13, 2006 4:52 PM CST Married "Online" Friends....
Pucks
PucksPucksVernon, Canada107 Threads 3,326 Posts
i dont necessarily believe that either.

Lots of people in relationships can come on dating sites. I see it on POF too. Some just like the forums. Some just like to meet new people.

There are several regulars on here as well, who are not not married who still participate on these sites. They are just off the market.
Dec 13, 2006 4:53 PM CST Married "Online" Friends....
Pucks
PucksPucksVernon, Canada107 Threads 3,326 Posts
i meant to say who are married or in relationships that still come onto dating sites. For those of you who are sooooo picky about grammer . LOLtongue
Dec 13, 2006 6:29 PM CST Married "Online" Friends....
shyatfirst
shyatfirstshyatfirstcobourg, Ontario Canada22 Threads 1,462 Posts
But didn't those regulars came on as single and met somebody here?

I think that staying here for the forums is different than starting out here off the market and only for the forums......

Okay to get to Wikkeds question..... I don't think that somebody in a relationship would come here just for the forums. Like somebody said, there are so many different kind of forums.....

I'm kinda going around the married title so we cannot have anybody "throwing" at us that we are "only" separated....... roll eyes
Dec 14, 2006 6:52 AM CST Married "Online" Friends....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I have to agree John....

I wholeheartedly agree that married people need "friends" and outlets too...I just don't think "dating sites" is the place to find them...I think there is a a more "deep rooted" problem if they go searching for "friends" online...

When my marriage started to break down...I made friends in my community...I volunteered my time at school...I called up old friends...I used to even make appointments with my family doctor...just for a "shoulder" to cry on...

When i decided to "join" a "friend" site...I fooled myself into thinking that it was just "friends" i was going to make...and for the most part i made sure that they lived far enough away that i would not be "tempted" to meet them...but our conversations were not that of "just friends"....
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