Why women look for older men? ( Archived) (71)

Dec 15, 2006 3:27 PM CST Why women look for older men?
Algarion
AlgarionAlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts
Yes i get frustrated when i think of it. 8/10 women think they will find happiness with older men. And you see 20 years old girls date with 35 years old men...That's really unatural!!!!!
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Dec 15, 2006 3:31 PM CST Why women look for older men?
WhiteAsh
WhiteAshWhiteAshTurtle Lake, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 688 Posts
I prefer younger men. Reason 1st husband 7 years older..Second, 6 months older. Trying something new this time.
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Dec 15, 2006 3:34 PM CST Why women look for older men?
Algarion
AlgarionAlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts
An 18 years old man?laugh laugh laugh
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Dec 15, 2006 3:36 PM CST Why women look for older men?
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
My best husbands so far have been younger....rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 15, 2006 3:37 PM CST Why women look for older men?
PanthersKiss
PanthersKissPanthersKissMiddlesex County, Massachusetts USA28 Threads 967 Posts
Ok, I will provide an answer as to why I would not want a young handsome, maybe muscular, six pack, hunk.

1.They contact me all the time, and that is flattering, I am 41 yrs old...I would feel uncomfortable dating a man in his 20's very close to my own son's age.

2.A young man is experiencing and discovering what I already know.
And there are also gaps in generations, like in music, I do not like Rap music at all, he might like blasting it out the window.
I am more reserved in my ways, a younger man maybe a little more wild in wanting to party...naturally I would not fit into that lifestyle.

3. and this one is very important, if this was to be a possilble long term relationship, there would be disavantages for him in the long run, and I would not want to deprive someone of some of their dreams like for example.

Many do not have children but would like to one day...I already have children and cannot have anymore, but I welcome a partners child.

Also, would this man in his 20's feel the same way about me in 20 yrs?

I cannot say it is impossible, but it takes a lot of compromising, and risks to have this type of relationship survive...and I know it can happen.
But the guy has to come into the relationship fully aware of the pros and cons.



angelAngel
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Dec 15, 2006 3:37 PM CST Why women look for older men?
Algarion
AlgarionAlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts
You see? That's what i am talking about.beer
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Dec 15, 2006 3:41 PM CST Why women look for older men?
Algarion
AlgarionAlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts
Well i was misunderstood...I mean why young girls look for older men. Sorry for not being specific.
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Dec 15, 2006 3:46 PM CST Why women look for older men?
PanthersKiss
PanthersKissPanthersKissMiddlesex County, Massachusetts USA28 Threads 967 Posts
I understood you...I gave you a reply according to the statement you made in response to what I said.

Now I have provided double views on older and younger.

Does it matter if it's men or women?grin

angel Angel
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Dec 15, 2006 3:54 PM CST Why women look for older men?
Algarion
AlgarionAlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts
Yes thank you!!!!cheers
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Dec 15, 2006 3:58 PM CST Why women look for older men?
dancingfarmer
dancingfarmerdancingfarmerColumbia, Connecticut USA41 Threads 752 Posts
At age 22, guys my own age wouldn't look at me. I married a man 13 years older than me. He was thoughtful, loving and attentive. I couldn't get that from guys my own age. It didn't work out. I've dated men the same age, older than me and younger too. Right now, one is ten years younger and the other is 12 years older. Which one will be right? I don't know. Don't give up - when the right girl meets you it won't matter to her what age you are. After all, doesn't everyone love Greek men? How romantic can it get??
dancing dancing
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Dec 15, 2006 4:04 PM CST Why women look for older men?
Algarion
AlgarionAlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts
So the legend abou Greek lovers spreads out really fast, doesn't it????????rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing dancing
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Dec 15, 2006 4:11 PM CST Why women look for older men?
Algarion
AlgarionAlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts
Hello Blanca!! Where have you been? I missed you!!!hug
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Dec 15, 2006 4:11 PM CST Why women look for older men?
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
Indeed, it does! laugh banana
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Dec 15, 2006 4:12 PM CST Why women look for older men?
beachfarmer
beachfarmerbeachfarmerLa Jolla, USA18 Threads 3,784 Posts
wow Not that it didn't work out
You just wore em out
Stick with 12 Years younger
I give it 1 year for seasoning
you'll be set for a year or 2

Something about farmers and staminagrin
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Dec 15, 2006 4:13 PM CST Why women look for older men?
blancalatina
blancalatinablancalatinawinston-salem, USA42 Threads 3,315 Posts
Hey sweetie! Been NOT able to register my car here in NC...failed my written license test...my son didn't come home last night....crappy day....and guess what? I'm still smiling. Have two dates tonight...Older men...Hmmmm. rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 15, 2006 4:16 PM CST Why women look for older men?
beachfarmer
beachfarmerbeachfarmerLa Jolla, USA18 Threads 3,784 Posts
He said spreads.
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Dec 15, 2006 4:16 PM CST Why women look for older men?
Algarion
AlgarionAlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts
Don't worry!!! You will have another chance for the car licence...It's not big deal...Anyway did your son returned? Mothers...You always thnk your sons are babies...laugh laugh hug
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Dec 15, 2006 4:17 PM CST Why women look for older men?
Algarion
AlgarionAlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts
Thanx for the correction my friend!!
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Dec 15, 2006 4:20 PM CST Why women look for older men?
blancalatina
blancalatinablancalatinawinston-salem, USA42 Threads 3,315 Posts
Hey! He's NOT a baby and I don't treat him like one. He can go out...but when he's supposed to be home to watch his sister so I can go do what I need...that's when I get upset...he's still not home.

I've never failed a test in my life...so I am laughing at this...and the examiner was flirting big time and was "single"...maybe I'll get him to join us here. I guess I did't flirt enough...he did pass me!!!rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 15, 2006 4:21 PM CST Why women look for older men?
blancalatina
blancalatinablancalatinawinston-salem, USA42 Threads 3,315 Posts
He DID ask me for my phone number....I got all excited until I realized it was for my voter's registration card!!! DAMN!rolling on the floor laughing
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