Yes i get frustrated when i think of it. 8/10 women think they will find happiness with older men. And you see 20 years old girls date with 35 years old men...That's really unatural!!!!!
PanthersKissMiddlesex County, Massachusetts USA967 posts
Ok, I will provide an answer as to why I would not want a young handsome, maybe muscular, six pack, hunk.
1.They contact me all the time, and that is flattering, I am 41 yrs old...I would feel uncomfortable dating a man in his 20's very close to my own son's age.
2.A young man is experiencing and discovering what I already know. And there are also gaps in generations, like in music, I do not like Rap music at all, he might like blasting it out the window. I am more reserved in my ways, a younger man maybe a little more wild in wanting to party...naturally I would not fit into that lifestyle.
3. and this one is very important, if this was to be a possilble long term relationship, there would be disavantages for him in the long run, and I would not want to deprive someone of some of their dreams like for example.
Many do not have children but would like to one day...I already have children and cannot have anymore, but I welcome a partners child.
Also, would this man in his 20's feel the same way about me in 20 yrs?
I cannot say it is impossible, but it takes a lot of compromising, and risks to have this type of relationship survive...and I know it can happen. But the guy has to come into the relationship fully aware of the pros and cons.
At age 22, guys my own age wouldn't look at me. I married a man 13 years older than me. He was thoughtful, loving and attentive. I couldn't get that from guys my own age. It didn't work out. I've dated men the same age, older than me and younger too. Right now, one is ten years younger and the other is 12 years older. Which one will be right? I don't know. Don't give up - when the right girl meets you it won't matter to her what age you are. After all, doesn't everyone love Greek men? How romantic can it get??
Hey sweetie! Been NOT able to register my car here in NC...failed my written license test...my son didn't come home last night....crappy day....and guess what? I'm still smiling. Have two dates tonight...Older men...Hmmmm.
Don't worry!!! You will have another chance for the car licence...It's not big deal...Anyway did your son returned? Mothers...You always thnk your sons are babies...
Hey! He's NOT a baby and I don't treat him like one. He can go out...but when he's supposed to be home to watch his sister so I can go do what I need...that's when I get upset...he's still not home.
I've never failed a test in my life...so I am laughing at this...and the examiner was flirting big time and was "single"...maybe I'll get him to join us here. I guess I did't flirt enough...he did pass me!!!
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