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Jan 24, 2015 2:24 PM CST What men are looking for?!
skippyguy: Happy people draw happy people !...Generally , though i do know of some who are not happy IF they are not moaning !!! , and don't take that wrong .... it's a strange old world at times

Is love then part of friendship, or are they separate ?
i will always like you skip.........but never love you.grin grin rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 24, 2015 2:25 PM CST What men are looking for?!
skippyguy: Happy people draw happy people !...Generally , though i do know of some who are not happy IF they are not moaning !!! , and don't take that wrong .... it's a strange old world at times

Is love then part of friendship, or are they separate ?


I will answer only after knowing in your view what is friendship and love means?cheers
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Jan 24, 2015 2:27 PM CST What men are looking for?!
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
truheart1941: i will always like you skip.........but never love you.


Thank God for Small Mercy's laugh

handshake bouquet doh
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Jan 24, 2015 2:31 PM CST What men are looking for?!
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
guysimple: I will answer only after knowing in your view what is friendship and love means?


Well i can only say .....i Believe you need to be friends first before
it builds to Love, But of course i have friends that are not in the
Love category, ...sounds like im confusing myself dunno wave

Friends are always there for you when you need them and vice-versa.....
that special friend you Love is there and part of the whole package
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Jan 24, 2015 2:33 PM CST What men are looking for?!
Lannna23
Lannna23Lannna23las Vegas, Nevada USA23 Threads 1,091 Posts
skippyguy: Indeed, i always thought , Friendship in the right situation could evolve to

but of course that all depends on the particulars


I think the same. wave
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Jan 24, 2015 2:38 PM CST What men are looking for?!
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
Lannna23: I think the same.


Hello Lanna handshake hug Pleasure to meet you ! wink
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Jan 24, 2015 2:40 PM CST What men are looking for?!
Lannna23
Lannna23Lannna23las Vegas, Nevada USA23 Threads 1,091 Posts
can you please give me a definition of friend in your words?

In my opinion it is someone who will laugh and cry with you. right? Someone who will love us for what we are and with no attempt to change us.

What would be a definition of person that you are in love with?

Someone that you are trust, he/she is there to hold you if you fail, there is some chemistry presented, she/he is sort of "harbor", no judgement, accepting/giving advice; when you/her/him come back home feel like in a haven and can tell everything to him/her.

isn't this than just a friendship at higher level? If you are not a friend with your soul mate what you are than?
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Jan 24, 2015 2:41 PM CST What men are looking for?!
Lannna23
Lannna23Lannna23las Vegas, Nevada USA23 Threads 1,091 Posts
skippyguy: Hello Lanna Pleasure to meet you !


Nice to see you here too

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Jan 24, 2015 2:42 PM CST What men are looking for?!
Lannna23
Lannna23Lannna23las Vegas, Nevada USA23 Threads 1,091 Posts
guysimple: hi lannna.
How is your day? I thought u said because of your conclusion here..lolzz
Its true People must love ourselves to be capable to get involved in healthy relationship but its just my believe we keep loving ourselves after falling in relationship we started called selfish..


Hi,
My day just started. It is 12:41PM here.
How are you?
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Jan 24, 2015 2:57 PM CST What men are looking for?!
Lannna23: Hi,
My day just started. It is 12:41PM here.
How are you?


Hi, My day was tiring as i didn't sleep well only two hours its 2:26am here tomorrow is holiday so i dont care.lolzz
have a good day.bouquet
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Jan 24, 2015 2:59 PM CST What men are looking for?!
guysimple: I am not confusing you..lolzz
Its alright if we keep loving ourselves when we are single as i believe only a happy person can provide true love but after falling in relationship our obligations changed we cant keep thinking about own happiness if we do we become selfish
I wanted to tell u if we keep loving ourselves after


I see many complain only n real life as they always says my patner is selfish. he just think about what please him/her. Dont care what i say.laugh
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Jan 24, 2015 3:07 PM CST What men are looking for?!
Lannna23
Lannna23Lannna23las Vegas, Nevada USA23 Threads 1,091 Posts
guysimple: I am not confusing you..lolzz
Its alright if we keep loving ourselves when we are single as i believe only a happy person can provide true love but after falling in relationship our obligations changed we cant keep thinking about own happiness if we do we become selfish
I wanted to tell u if we keep loving ourselves after


Why our obligation changed after failing in relationship?
In what way?
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Jan 24, 2015 3:12 PM CST What men are looking for?!
skippyguy: Well i can only say .....i Believe you need to be friends first before
it builds to Love, But of course i have friends that are not in the
Love category, ...sounds like im confusing myself

Friends are always there for you when you need them and vice-versa.....
that special friend you Love is there and part of the whole package


Ok then. I would like to comment now.
friendship is first important phase/step of relationship. we build up trust on each others.
love is what in which physical pleasure is involved.
we cant sleep with friend but only with lover. we have more expectation from lover than friends.
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Jan 24, 2015 3:12 PM CST What men are looking for?!
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
Lannna23: Thank you
I am going to change my profile


How was it wrong..???

Just say and seek as you are, don't like.....pretend to be something else ! never gets anyone of anything, anywhere grin bouquet
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Jan 24, 2015 3:14 PM CST What men are looking for?!
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
guysimple: Ok then. I would like to comment now.
friendship is first important phase/step of relationship. we build up trust on each others.
love is what in which physical pleasure is involved.
we cant sleep with friend but only with lover. we have more expectation from lover than friends.


We hope not to sleep with a friend !
but yes quite right, i think thats what i said in my roundabout way handshake

Trust is where alot fall down.........tbh
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Jan 24, 2015 3:19 PM CST What men are looking for?!
Lannna23: Why our obligation changed after failing in relationship?
In what way?


when you are single you dont have any responsibility and you can do whatever pleases you spending time with friends no one to ask you. and just after having life partner do you think so you can lead the same life dont you think we first think about whether she/he would be waiting and it become your first priority to think care/think about partner happiness than own.
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Jan 24, 2015 3:37 PM CST What men are looking for?!
Lannna23
Lannna23Lannna23las Vegas, Nevada USA23 Threads 1,091 Posts
guysimple: when you are single you dont have any responsibility and you can do whatever pleases you spending time with friends no one to ask you. and just after having life partner do you think so you can lead the same life dont you think we first think about whether she/he would be waiting and it become your first priority to think care/think about partner happiness than own.


isnt that a sort of loving yourself but not being selfish at same time?
if you please yourself if you do not love inner you?
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Jan 24, 2015 3:39 PM CST What men are looking for?!
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
A good time........

Who looks for a bad time dunno
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Jan 24, 2015 3:39 PM CST What men are looking for?!
Lannna23
Lannna23Lannna23las Vegas, Nevada USA23 Threads 1,091 Posts
mistake:
second sentence should be:
Why would you please yourself if you do not like yourself?
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Jan 24, 2015 3:43 PM CST What men are looking for?!
Lannna23
Lannna23Lannna23las Vegas, Nevada USA23 Threads 1,091 Posts
almera03: A good time........

Who looks for a bad time
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