skippyguy: Happy people draw happy people !...Generally , though i do know of some who are not happy IF they are not moaning !!! , and don't take that wrong .... it's a strange old world at times
Is love then part of friendship, or are they separate ?
i will always like you skip.........but never love you.
skippyguy: Happy people draw happy people !...Generally , though i do know of some who are not happy IF they are not moaning !!! , and don't take that wrong .... it's a strange old world at times
Is love then part of friendship, or are they separate ?
I will answer only after knowing in your view what is friendship and love means?
guysimple: I will answer only after knowing in your view what is friendship and love means?
Well i can only say .....i Believe you need to be friends first before it builds to Love, But of course i have friends that are not in the Love category, ...sounds like im confusing myself
Friends are always there for you when you need them and vice-versa..... that special friend you Love is there and part of the whole package
can you please give me a definition of friend in your words?
In my opinion it is someone who will laugh and cry with you. right? Someone who will love us for what we are and with no attempt to change us.
What would be a definition of person that you are in love with?
Someone that you are trust, he/she is there to hold you if you fail, there is some chemistry presented, she/he is sort of "harbor", no judgement, accepting/giving advice; when you/her/him come back home feel like in a haven and can tell everything to him/her.
isn't this than just a friendship at higher level? If you are not a friend with your soul mate what you are than?
guysimple: hi lannna. How is your day? I thought u said because of your conclusion here..lolzz Its true People must love ourselves to be capable to get involved in healthy relationship but its just my believe we keep loving ourselves after falling in relationship we started called selfish..
Hi, My day just started. It is 12:41PM here. How are you?
guysimple: I am not confusing you..lolzz Its alright if we keep loving ourselves when we are single as i believe only a happy person can provide true love but after falling in relationship our obligations changed we cant keep thinking about own happiness if we do we become selfish I wanted to tell u if we keep loving ourselves after
I see many complain only n real life as they always says my patner is selfish. he just think about what please him/her. Dont care what i say.
guysimple: I am not confusing you..lolzz Its alright if we keep loving ourselves when we are single as i believe only a happy person can provide true love but after falling in relationship our obligations changed we cant keep thinking about own happiness if we do we become selfish I wanted to tell u if we keep loving ourselves after
Why our obligation changed after failing in relationship? In what way?
skippyguy: Well i can only say .....i Believe you need to be friends first before it builds to Love, But of course i have friends that are not in the Love category, ...sounds like im confusing myself
Friends are always there for you when you need them and vice-versa..... that special friend you Love is there and part of the whole package
Ok then. I would like to comment now. friendship is first important phase/step of relationship. we build up trust on each others. love is what in which physical pleasure is involved. we cant sleep with friend but only with lover. we have more expectation from lover than friends.
guysimple: Ok then. I would like to comment now. friendship is first important phase/step of relationship. we build up trust on each others. love is what in which physical pleasure is involved. we cant sleep with friend but only with lover. we have more expectation from lover than friends.
We hope not to sleep with a friend ! but yes quite right, i think thats what i said in my roundabout way
Lannna23: Why our obligation changed after failing in relationship? In what way?
when you are single you dont have any responsibility and you can do whatever pleases you spending time with friends no one to ask you. and just after having life partner do you think so you can lead the same life dont you think we first think about whether she/he would be waiting and it become your first priority to think care/think about partner happiness than own.
guysimple: when you are single you dont have any responsibility and you can do whatever pleases you spending time with friends no one to ask you. and just after having life partner do you think so you can lead the same life dont you think we first think about whether she/he would be waiting and it become your first priority to think care/think about partner happiness than own.
isnt that a sort of loving yourself but not being selfish at same time? if you please yourself if you do not love inner you?
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Is love then part of friendship, or are they separate ?