Which one of us do not think our kids r great ? ( Archived) (45)

Apr 25, 2015 1:51 AM CST Which one of us do not think our kids r great ?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
rizlared: My first wife is South African, it would be difficult to find a more educated and intelligent woman, so I doubt if Jac's remark was anything to do with your place of residence but more with regards to your attitude and comments.
Your spiteful remark about my parenting skills for example, shows the way you think and tells much about your character.

You can now block me, as I have wasted enough time on your petty mindedness


Riz No... don't ask to be blocked... it is not you that is the problem..

The op is wanting everyone to agree, and seems to not be tolerant if you have a conversational or differing opinion..

sorry OP , but that is the way you are coming across.



sigh
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Apr 25, 2015 4:58 AM CST Which one of us do not think our kids r great ?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
I am happy with my children, I brought them up to be independent and they are.
My daughter is an artist and my son a business man, both successful in their own fields.
At least they are not judgemental of my somewhat international lifestylecheers hug
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Apr 25, 2015 5:22 AM CST Which one of us do not think our kids r great ?
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
tomcatwarne: I am happy with my children, I brought them up to be independent and they are.
My daughter is an artist and my son a business man, both successful in their own fields.
At least they are not judgemental of my somewhat international lifestyle


I am glad. We all strive for our kids to in my case one day be successfull and happy.
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Apr 25, 2015 5:24 AM CST Which one of us do not think our kids r great ?
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
Merriweather: No.. why? please explain?


Why r u asking me. Quick to point fingers and u don't even know why.
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Apr 25, 2015 6:14 AM CST Which one of us do not think our kids r great ?
Snookums3
Snookums3Snookums3Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa80 Threads 35 Polls 1,174 Posts
jac_the_gripper: I asked because you seem to muddle the difference between evaluating statements and personal criticism and become defensive, or offensive as a result.

DH made a comment which might have meant all sorts of things; he didn't expand, or explain. Yet, you appear to have made an assumption by saying his comment was 'unbelievable'.

How can anyone believe, or not believe a comment which has no definitive content to believe, or not believe?

This is an evaluation of the interaction, a critique. It's different from personal criticism.


Where do u feel u get the right from to evaluate my comments in any way.
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