what is a soul mate to you??? ( Archived) (33)

Dec 18, 2006 10:06 PM CST what is a soul mate to you???
ladydancerdivine
ladydancerdivineladydancerdivinejackson, Ohio USA19 Threads 256 Posts
just curious to see what everyone thinks a soul mate is for them?? is it someone that is just like you, understands you....
what is your ideal soul mate like and how do you picture them?


for me, well, it's someone that respects my boundaries and knows when i am uncomfortable without me saying a word, knowing my heart even if i don't tell them what i feel, who will stand beside me through thick and thin...i would be comfortable in his arms and never want to leave.
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Dec 18, 2006 10:11 PM CST what is a soul mate to you???
littlesparkplug
littlesparkpluglittlesparkplugCanton, USA73 Threads 357 Posts
A God given gift
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Dec 18, 2006 10:14 PM CST what is a soul mate to you???
ladydancerdivine
ladydancerdivineladydancerdivinejackson, Ohio USA19 Threads 256 Posts
you couldn't be more right
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Dec 18, 2006 10:14 PM CST what is a soul mate to you???
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
I'd pretty much go with your definition with additional note that it's two-way. You’re partner basically feels precisely the same way about you. When two people are comfortable and secure in each other's love they are soulmates. It's a feeling that it was "meant to be". That doesn't mean that it was exclusively meant to be, it just means that it's meant to be. I don't believe that everyone has one particular "soulmate". If that were the case there would be a lot of unmatched people because the population simply isn't 50/50 male/female. Moreover, what about when children and young people die? Does that mean that someone's soulmate died? Well, in a way it does, but in other way it doesn't because there are others out there who can be their potential soulmate.

I only wish I could find mine before I die, and I'm sure she's wishing she could find me too.
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Dec 18, 2006 10:15 PM CST what is a soul mate to you???
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
"Soulmate"...just another platitude when it comes to dating. There is no such thing. All I know is guys who treat women like crap get all the woman's attention, while a decent guy who would like to be a "soulmate" to a woman gets the boot. Any woman disagree with that? I would love to hear it. Sorry, but it has been a tough night.
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Dec 18, 2006 10:16 PM CST what is a soul mate to you???
tafini20
tafini20tafini20Toronto, Ontario Canada8 Threads 286 Posts
When I find him, I'll tell you! :)
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Dec 18, 2006 10:17 PM CST what is a soul mate to you???
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
Well that's a given isn't it? rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 18, 2006 10:18 PM CST what is a soul mate to you???
ladydancerdivine
ladydancerdivineladydancerdivinejackson, Ohio USA19 Threads 256 Posts
i think it has a lot to do with what we make of it.... and of course it must go both ways... and i'm sure that you will find your soul mate soon.wine
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Dec 18, 2006 11:39 PM CST what is a soul mate to you???
superdougie11
superdougie11superdougie11Edmonton, Canada40 Threads 533 Posts
A soul mate to me is someone who will be there for me through the good, the bad, and the ugly!
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Dec 18, 2006 11:42 PM CST what is a soul mate to you???
jasonj666
jasonj666jasonj666newport, Gwent, Wales UK29 Threads 1,226 Posts
well i would think a soul mate would be someone you connect straight away with, someone who sort of knows what your thinking, someone you enjoy spending every waking minute with and of course you have to make each other feel special.

wel thats what i think anyway!
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Dec 19, 2006 12:21 AM CST what is a soul mate to you???
duce1969
duce1969duce1969fraziers bottom, West Virginia USA84 Threads 610 Posts
i agree with you . a soulmate will take you no matter what you have or dont have and will love you know matter what . when you find your soul mate you will know by the way you feel in side . when you connect heart and soul . when your soulmate can touch you and send chills up your spine and you always feel their preseance even if their not there with you at the time.

just my thoughts
duce
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Dec 19, 2006 12:58 AM CST what is a soul mate to you???
twilightstwin
twilightstwintwilightstwinDetroit Lakes, USA95 Threads 3,537 Posts
Finding your soulmate is like winning the lotto. Odds are against you, but when you win you win big!
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Dec 19, 2006 12:59 AM CST what is a soul mate to you???
easyboy
easyboyeasyboybarre, USA4 Threads 983 Posts
Nice way to put it!peace
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Dec 19, 2006 1:00 AM CST what is a soul mate to you???
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
a soulmate to me is the peron who brings new life to me
there for me and i for him
you can live without a soulmate but its nice to have one
i have won the lotto with the one who found me
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Dec 19, 2006 1:05 AM CST what is a soul mate to you???
beachfarmer
beachfarmerbeachfarmerLa Jolla, USA18 Threads 3,784 Posts
The minute I heard my first love story I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along.

Jalal ad-Din Rumi
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Dec 19, 2006 1:05 AM CST what is a soul mate to you???
transientmind
transientmindtransientmindTulsa, USA16 Threads 1,252 Posts
IMHO, soulmates aren't won, they're earned...and that means 50/50.
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Dec 19, 2006 1:09 AM CST what is a soul mate to you???
cardsfan23
cardsfan23cardsfan23somewhere, USA23 Threads 4,228 Posts
my soulmate is the person that completes me. She understands me when i dont uncerstand me. She loves me through the hard times, and the good. Cries with me and holds me close. Stares at me and realizes that im the guy she wants, needs, and dreams to spend her life with. Someone i can look at and realize instantly im in love. I look in her eyes and get lost. I dream about her when im awake and asleep.
stew
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Dec 19, 2006 1:11 AM CST what is a soul mate to you???
VioladorDeLaLey
VioladorDeLaLeyVioladorDeLaLeyBajo Un Sol Feliz, USA11 Threads 4,548 Posts
nicely put girlthumbs up
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Dec 19, 2006 1:12 AM CST what is a soul mate to you???
twilightstwin
twilightstwintwilightstwinDetroit Lakes, USA95 Threads 3,537 Posts
wink
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Dec 19, 2006 1:17 AM CST what is a soul mate to you???
beachfarmer
beachfarmerbeachfarmerLa Jolla, USA18 Threads 3,784 Posts
“When I am with you, we stay up all night.
When you're not here, I can't go to sleep.

Praise God for those two insomnias!
And the difference between them.

More Rumi
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