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Aug 17, 2015 5:30 PM CST Arnold
Zaffaonline now!
Zaffaonline now!ZaffaLondon, Greater London, England UK7 Threads 8 Posts
Why does a lady wait for a guy to make first contact? conversing
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Aug 17, 2015 5:34 PM CST Arnold
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
Zaffa: Why does a lady wait for a guy to make first contact?


They don't believe me.conversing I do like the Blog title though,
sort of befits the theme.grin
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Aug 17, 2015 5:43 PM CST Arnold
KarloradoFL
KarloradoFLKarloradoFLDeLeon Springs, Florida USA50 Threads 3 Polls 9,475 Posts
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Aug 17, 2015 5:51 PM CST Arnold
Zaffaonline now!
Zaffaonline now!ZaffaLondon, Greater London, England UK7 Threads 8 Posts
Better start pumping! :-)
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Aug 17, 2015 6:21 PM CST Arnold
butterrum
butterrumbutterrumkalispell, Montana USA7 Threads 23 Posts
because some of us are very sky and don't have the guts to ask them. Also we wounder if he has already been taken.
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Aug 17, 2015 6:27 PM CST Arnold
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
butterrum: because some of us are very sky and don't have the guts to ask them. Also we wounder if he has already been taken.


wave Butter one can at least be under the assumption that
someone is available on a Dating site can't we. With that being
said, some Profiles do contradict that, but there are many reasons
for that too. Plus what does it cost really to shoot a Hello to
someone, maybe a bit of pride I guess, and a hit if rejected.
Some Men here play it like a numbers game, ask 20, o1 will bite
etc.cheers
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Aug 17, 2015 8:06 PM CST Arnold
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Zaffa: Why does a lady wait for a guy to make first contact?


Because some of us ladies are old fashioned like that. conversing
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Aug 17, 2015 11:54 PM CST Arnold
Lindzi
LindziLindziManama, Bahrain12 Threads 191 Posts
pedalguy59: They don't believe me. I do like the Blog title though,
sort of befits the theme.


I was going to say that he was really good in the new Terminator movie
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Aug 18, 2015 8:42 AM CST Arnold
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Zaffa: Why does a lady wait for a guy to make first contact?

There are plenty who do comfort
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Aug 18, 2015 10:46 AM CST Arnold
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Zaffa: Why does a lady wait for a guy to make first contact?


Men don't really care how confident she is. If she's too nervous and shy to approach the opportunity might be missed but we wouldn't fancy her any the less. We decide within a few seconds based on how she looks.

But women do care how confident he is. If he's too nervous and shy to approach the missed opportunity wouldn't matter because she wouldn't fancy him anyway(all other things equal). She decides on how he behaves within that first few seconds.

Now it doesn't require any confidence to "approach" a woman online. Nonetheless the same habits apply, women are used to sitting back and being admired in real life and this carries over onto the internet.
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Aug 18, 2015 11:20 AM CST Arnold
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Obstinance_Works: Men don't really care how confident she is. If she's too nervous and shy to approach the opportunity might be missed but we wouldn't fancy her any the less. We decide within a few seconds based on how she looks.

But women do care how confident he is. If he's too nervous and shy to approach the missed opportunity wouldn't matter because she wouldn't fancy him anyway(all other things equal). She decides on how he behaves within that first few seconds.

Now it doesn't require any confidence to "approach" a woman online. Nonetheless the same habits apply, women are used to sitting back and being admired in real life and this carries over onto the internet.


Woot woot applause Yes...bingo!!!!! yay
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Aug 18, 2015 7:45 PM CST Arnold
chame1eon_again
chame1eon_againchame1eon_againBlueberry, Pennsylvania USA85 Posts
Arnold... ... ... ... ... ... Why does a lady wait for a guy to make first contact?

I just can't quite connect the dots...

(ignoring Arnold) To answer the question, because women don't usually have to, do they?

Just know this, if a woman initiates contact with you that means she's really interested. Or very bored. Or something. banana
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