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Mar 9, 2016 8:43 AM CST friendship
TheRedSquirrel87: If you're passionate then it's all or nothing. To me a friendship is almost a mark of disrespect to the love you once had. If I did carry on a friendship with her it would be for a practical reason(such as the kids). Imo friendships after relationships are wooden and they're for people with tepid passion.


applause cheering

Obs what Z great agreement I have with you on this. I think of it in the same line. I believe it's better for both. Indeed only when concerns about children, yes be a responsible parents but friendly for the sake of old times, no way.
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Mar 9, 2016 8:47 AM CST friendship
TheRedSquirrel87: If you're passionate then it's all or nothing. To me a friendship is almost a mark of disrespect to the love you once had. If I did carry on a friendship with her it would be for a practical reason(such as the kids). Imo friendships after relationships are wooden and they're for people with tepid passion.


applause cheering

Obs what Z great agreement I have with you on this. I think of it in the same line. I believe it's better for both. Indeed only when concerns about children, yes be a responsible parents but friendly for the sake of old times, no way.
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Mar 9, 2016 12:16 PM CST friendship
lindsyjones: Can you really be friends with whom you just dumped?

Or is there a need?
I'm sure there are some rare instances where both parties actually stay good friends, but it is not at all in the majority, or even common. One party or the other is more likely than not to feel "burned", and not really want to see or be around the other. (I believe it to be a gross mistake for a judge to mandate a separated or divorced couple to pretend to be friendly, for whatever reason). Sometimes I think it is just best for people to not see each other after a falling out.
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Mar 9, 2016 7:49 PM CST friendship
rohaan: I'm sure there are some rare instances where both parties actually stay good friends, but it is not at all in the majority, or even common. One party or the other is more likely than not to feel "burned", and not really want to see or be around the other. (I believe it to be a gross mistake for a judge to mandate a separated or divorced couple to pretend to be friendly, for whatever reason). Sometimes I think it is just best for people to not see each other after a falling out.


I'm in line with that direction Rohan, specially if like you said, someone or both feel burned out.

But eventually when healed and all forgiven, well there's nothing wrong, I guess, specially when children's affairs will come up like wedding, etc.
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Mar 9, 2016 8:40 PM CST friendship
eurolady
euroladyeuroladyFredericton, New Brunswick Canada1 Threads 228 Posts
Yup...I always friends with people I was close...
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Mar 9, 2016 8:51 PM CST friendship
eurolady: Yup...I always friends with people I was close...


Euro there's nothing wrong as long as both are comfortable. That's as long as no one's being hurt. wave
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