Kaybee50: That's a nasty response. You make it everyone's business when you post it on a public forum. She evasion of my question pretty much answers it for me. I am certain I know who this thread is talking about. Since you can pick up his vibes, can you feel how deeply in pain he is feeling right now? How horrified he must feel to read these things you've written about him? I am hurting for him to be treated in such a matter. He is not a lab specimen and you are not a psychologist.
Kaybee50: Like you I am blunt. Like you, I tell it like it is. Like you, I state the facts. I care very much about him and you have treated him poorly.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Kaybee50: Like you I am blunt. Like you, I tell it like it is. Like you, I state the facts. I care very much about him and you have treated him poorly.
Kaybee50: Stop playing the victim. What you should be doing at this very moment is how to repair things with him. He is the one that needs your attention right now.
I think that should have stayed private, there was no need to make everybody wonder who that person is, as we are not many on the forums it won't be a very hard guess...
ChesneyChrist: Caring and cantankerous is the way forward. Helping people with low self-esteem doesn't involve being the most kindest-looking or positive you can be. I mean national compliment day was invented to encourage suicide amongst people with low self-esteem. It has to be sincere and it has to be natural. You have to imbibe the way they feel, not come on like Mr Motivator.
ChesneyChrist: Caring and cantankerous is the way forward. Helping people with low self-esteem doesn't involve being the most kindest-looking or positive you can be. I mean national compliment day was invented to encourage suicide amongst people with low self-esteem. It has to be sincere and it has to be natural. You have to imbibe the way they feel, not come on like Mr Motivator.
Part of everything you say has to treat them as badly as they treat themselves, to understand how they feel. I'm not saying everything you say has to be brutally honest, but it'll have to be quite honest.
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You make it everyone's business when you post it on a public forum.
She evasion of my question pretty much answers it for me.
I am certain I know who this thread is talking about.
Since you can pick up his vibes, can you feel how deeply in pain he is feeling right now?
How horrified he must feel to read these things you've written about him?
I am hurting for him to be treated in such a matter.
He is not a lab specimen and you are not a psychologist.