It took me five years to believe and feel ready to try again...yes, I am patient... But there are women that can't wait to try their chances straight after a breakup...
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
SweetnFunnyChic: I'm single and impatient. But I have standards. I will not rush into dating or a relationship until I feel sure about the guy. I tend to think a lot.
That is why I like u very much.....I'm very similar.....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
pKrema: It took me five years to believe and feel ready to try again...yes, I am patient... But there are women that can't wait to try their chances straight after a breakup...
Yes Krem....I c u as a good friend....that I have a lot in common with.....I haven't had a man in my life for over 12 years now...…..not because of heart break but I was waiting for the right one to come along.....hopefully this one is right...or I will wait some more....not just anyone will do.....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
secludedStar: -even when it comes to people- You can't be 'waiting' for them either.
~~ which is cool. . more of these automated filtration systems doing their job.
What would u rather have me do....? Go stand on the street corner......I'm Not for Sale.... Take anyone u like that u come across....Like is not the only thing that counts.... etc and so on...…
--> None of me is even remotely automated.....as U should have noticed by now.....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
secludedStar: - Hmm what to do. (yea i find myself thinking that about relationships A-LOT) .
Yea cause you see- I don't like approaching people-- I don't Enjoy, Being approached.----------
So with that being out there.-- What.~... should i DO . when in public.---- I like the idea of ---- Waiting?. Things fall into place. ,. . -- some ones gotta do the approaching.- It's gonna happen on one side of the coin.
Stay on here...It is a virtual approach...not physical....makes a big difference....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
secludedStar: ~
-- wait a tick-- You got each other.
If u r referring to the new man, in my life...I will still c first if it will work....and he's far away...not with me....but u live alone I presume....while I have my kids with me.....so yes at this moment I have my kids....but they will also eventually move out of the house....then I will only have my animals....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
diova: Single I am, impatient I'm not.
Truth be told, I've given up in that department.
Having said that, at times, I have those moments when I need a hairy chest to lay my weary head on
I totally understand, but I have not given up, it's been over 12 years for me....and I'm only 54, there is still many years ahead, except if I suddenly peg....I might be 81 and only find him then.....Mind u...I don't know about hairy chest...I have never had one....
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Very true.....
Do u just grab anything that comes along,
to satisfy ur immediate needs,
and don't think of the long term...…
Human nature very rarely change...…