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Jan 7, 2007 2:33 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
StudioGuyMN
StudioGuyMNStudioGuyMNBrooklyn Park, Minnesota USA22 Threads 242 Posts
When you wish that you could at least remain as friends but you cannot.
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Jan 7, 2007 2:44 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
Marktrademark
MarktrademarkMarktrademarkHomealone, New York USA3 Threads 47 Posts
I would say for me is, just walking away that very last day together, after that you gotta look forward.

I never forget, I even stay intouch, but respect that we will not be together again.
Mark
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Jan 7, 2007 2:55 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
OneEnigmaticSoul
OneEnigmaticSoulOneEnigmaticSoulduanesburg, New York USA8 Threads 207 Posts
Letting go. It's one thing to break up but to emotionally detach yourself from someone you have been the closest to (even though you know it just didn't work) is a hard thing.
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Jan 7, 2007 3:00 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
EnigmaticExistnc
EnigmaticExistncEnigmaticExistncSouthCoast, British Columbia Canada8 Threads 802 Posts
When you realize the relationship is over but agree to stay friends ----and spend forever longing for more because you REALLY REALLY like him... but he moves on... and you get to be the cool buddy...

Has happened to me too many times...moping



sigh
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Jan 7, 2007 3:12 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA89 Threads 2,634 Posts
trying to accept the betrayal
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Jan 7, 2007 3:22 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
The_Kansan
The_KansanThe_KansanKnoxville, Tennessee USA303 Threads 1 Polls 3,395 Posts
The hardest part about breaking up is just realizing that you're no longer wanted. Friends? If we were really going to be friends then we wouldn't have broken up.

Hearing the words "It's not you, it's me." Bull crap! There must be something in you that doesn't like me anymore and if you don't like me, then it's ME, not you! Or, "I thought I was ready for a relationship, but I'm not." (translation: I don't want a relationship with YOU!) However it's worded, it still means that you're not wanted or needed and I don't care whether your heart is made of gold or has turned to stone - It hurts because you're not wanted anymore.

THAT'S the hardest part about breaking up. Waking up the next morning just a little bit more alone than the day before...
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Jan 7, 2007 3:26 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
FreeBird314
FreeBird314FreeBird314Saint Charles, Missouri USA1 Threads 24 Posts
After accepting its over, but dealing with the fact that all the years, time, and effort was a waste, and they no longer love you. But you cannot stop loving them
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Jan 7, 2007 3:27 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
longingformyluv
longingformyluvlongingformyluvPittsburgh, USA39 Threads 3,355 Posts
You just gave me a de je vu...was talking about that to a certain someone today...grin
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Jan 7, 2007 3:28 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
longingformyluv
longingformyluvlongingformyluvPittsburgh, USA39 Threads 3,355 Posts
Hey sweetie girl!
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Jan 7, 2007 3:29 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
FreeBird314
FreeBird314FreeBird314Saint Charles, Missouri USA1 Threads 24 Posts
whats up.... damn insomnia got me going confused
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Jan 7, 2007 3:34 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
red386
red386red386daytona, Florida USA13 Threads 360 Posts
waiting for the pain to stop.sigh
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Jan 7, 2007 3:46 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
The_Kansan
The_KansanThe_KansanKnoxville, Tennessee USA303 Threads 1 Polls 3,395 Posts
Wondering if the pain WILL stop?sigh
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Jan 7, 2007 8:12 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
dancingfarmer
dancingfarmerdancingfarmerColumbia, Connecticut USA41 Threads 752 Posts
Having no one to confide it, no one to share your thoughts and feelings with and knowing they don't want you anymore. Starting over not knowing if you'll ever find someone you love as much and fearing that no one will love you again.
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Jan 7, 2007 8:24 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
themanbd1
themanbd1themanbd1Van Wert, Ohio USA26 Threads 183 Posts
For me it is the finality of it. It is a real sobering thought to realize something is over and there is not going back. Especially if you have done nothing wrong to deserve it and you still have feelings for that person. Some things just weren't meant to be
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Jan 7, 2007 8:26 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I totally agree--when to finally let go and move on.
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Jan 7, 2007 8:46 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
The hardest part is knowing that you broke
someones heart. If you are the one making
the decision to part ways.sigh
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Jan 7, 2007 9:24 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
For me is to look at my part in problems. So I don't repeat it again in the next relationship.
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Jan 7, 2007 9:28 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
findig enough trash bags to pack their stuff in.roll eyes
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Jan 7, 2007 9:41 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
Yeah laugh

And spending all that energy throwing the bags out the door rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 8, 2007 8:18 AM CST The Hardest Part About Breaking Up Is...
Jose13
Jose13Jose13Azángaro, Puno Peru24 Threads 440 Posts
To sort out her and my belongings...!! devil
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