My good friend (10)
maybe he has not changed but your relationship has. It is always painful when you miss someone more than they miss you. Unfortunately i cannot give you any advice, but experience tells me you will never get back what you had, unless there comes a time he needs you. The question is how will you foll the void.
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marlindap: maybe he has not changed but your relationship has. It is always painful when you miss someone more than they miss you. Unfortunately i cannot give you any advice, but experience tells me you will never get back what you had, unless there comes a time he needs you. The question is how will you foll the void.
Truth hurts, and much more when you are a sentimental person and you give to friends, as it is my case, I have not managed to stop romanticizing my friends, whenever situations like these happen they affect me a lot, it hurts to know that I will not recover the friend from before, but I have to learn to lose and stay with this emptiness, the true friends will always be there, and even if they are not, I will settle for being the best friend of someone------ This thread is Archived ------
marlindap: maybe he has not changed but your relationship has. It is always painful when you miss someone more than they miss you. Unfortunately i cannot give you any advice, but experience tells me you will never get back what you had, unless there comes a time he needs you. The question is how will you foll the void.
Thanks for the advice, it made me think a lot------ This thread is Archived ------
I had something similar happen to me when i was very young, and it affected me for the rest of my life, so even though i do not know how to help you, i did not want your comment left all alone.
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Amed32: My great friend and I always walk together, always had me for everything, at all times I was useful, I always visited my house, and I also obviously his, if I ate something he shared with me, if he bought something he shared with me, when he left for his job he called me whenever he was free to help him, since his work was quite complicated and well there I was, one day my great friend just found a treasure, and his life suddenly began to change, to the truth that I was very happy, because his situation before his discovery was not good as well as mine, suddenly, he no longer looks for me, never visits my house, every time I ask him. What happens, because he tells me that he does not have time like before, that his work steals all the time, now instead of giving me something, he gives me things as payment for a favor, it has been hard for me to accept that change, because that my great friend has completely changed, what do they tell me? I have my theories,
a) It was always that way, just waiting for the moment to show its reality
b) Maybe he's acting like this without realizing
c) The money has been hurting him
d) Or simply changed like that from nothing,
It can be changed just like that, can somebody suddenly change their personality just because of a good fortune in their life? I told him that he has changed and he has told me that he has not changed at all, but he still does not give signals, Can anyone advise me?
For me, the sure sign of the strength of a friendship is if it survives a change in circumstance. a) It was always that way, just waiting for the moment to show its reality
b) Maybe he's acting like this without realizing
c) The money has been hurting him
d) Or simply changed like that from nothing,
It can be changed just like that, can somebody suddenly change their personality just because of a good fortune in their life? I told him that he has changed and he has told me that he has not changed at all, but he still does not give signals, Can anyone advise me?
Whether that change is one going into a new relationship, or change in financial circumstances or anything.
If the friendship can't survive the change, then it wasn't a strong equal relationship in the first place.
It is difficult when it does happen though
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mollybaby: For me, the sure sign of the strength of a friendship is if it survives a change in circumstance.
Whether that change is one going into a new relationship, or change in financial circumstances or anything.
If the friendship can't survive the change, then it wasn't a strong equal relationship in the first place.
It is difficult when it does happen though
According to your comments, is that it is so difficult today to choose a good friend, we are surrounded by people who sometimes say "My great friend how are you" and when you think this word so strong you just trust the person and it hurts when it goes, or fails you, and more when you are faithful to this friendship relationshipWhether that change is one going into a new relationship, or change in financial circumstances or anything.
If the friendship can't survive the change, then it wasn't a strong equal relationship in the first place.
It is difficult when it does happen though
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marlindap: I had something similar happen to me when i was very young, and it affected me for the rest of my life, so even though i do not know how to help you, i did not want your comment left all alone.
Thank you very much anyway, it has helped me a lot to understand, thank you, God bless you very much, I have not stopped laughing, with the comic video of yours that is in Yotube, you are very happy.------ This thread is Archived ------
I am glad you enjoyed it, that was my third time on stage, so i am very new to it. I hope I will be able to get someone to record my next one, as i will be doing those jokes and some new ones.As it goes with friendships sometimes it is better to accept they have changed than to give up the friendship forever, only you can judge that.
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marlindap: I am glad you enjoyed it, that was my third time on stage, so i am very new to it. I hope I will be able to get someone to record my next one, as i will be doing those jokes and some new ones.As it goes with friendships sometimes it is better to accept they have changed than to give up the friendship forever, only you can judge that.
Hello, I will be anxious to wait for your new recordings, please let me know, for me you are very funny------ This thread is Archived ------
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a) It was always that way, just waiting for the moment to show its reality
b) Maybe he's acting like this without realizing
c) The money has been hurting him
d) Or simply changed like that from nothing,
It can be changed just like that, can somebody suddenly change their personality just because of a good fortune in their life? I told him that he has changed and he has told me that he has not changed at all, but he still does not give signals, Can anyone advise me?