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I'm trying to be as specific as i can here...
I was married to a wonderful man...a good man in every way...a handsome man, a good provider and an excellent father....my whole family absolutely adores him (he actually spends more time with them than I do...), he cared for my parents as if they were his own and they could depend on him for anything anytime of the day or night...the teachers and mothers at the school love him as he is always willing to go on school trips and always willing to lend a helping hand....
My problem?...He is just not for me...I feel absolutely nothing that a "wife" should have felt for a husband...I loved him...as a best friend...but not as a lover...I had tried everything to make that marriage work...but i just couldn't stand it anymore...and i sunk into depression...and that's when i decided i needed to get out, if for nothing else...to save my sanity...
Now...because very few people understand my situation - my whole family included - I do not have a shoulder to lean on and i can't talk to them about my "life"...because they refuse to understand...they felt i had it all and i threw it all away...all they ever do is "badger" me...so i avoid them even more now...
Anyone else been through this or have any suggestions....words of wisdom??