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I have never fallen for a guy who was already comitted.I find it wrong plus weak to wait for him until he leaves his girlfriend plus how can a person like that be trusted?If he does it to his girl why shouldnt he do it to me.Even if i find myself liking someone and then i find out he is in a relationship i let it go and i loose intrest .I cant respect a person like that.
Good thinking girl....with men its always best to follow your head not your heart! I'm just curious how these situations usually end. Thanks for your input and valid comments. 
i could never do that how can u win somebody,s love if you cheat to start with no its just not on .....no no no
But Wedward you are forgetting what I keep saying about you...I tell you that the guys these days are no comparison to you!! Your generation had a lot more respect for one another...these days its different. I dont know, maybe the guy in the situation would want to see how things go before leaving what he has?? 
It happens all the time and I was surprised not a lot of people answered this thread...maybe they do not feel comfortable to admit they have been through it?? We are not here to judge however!!
It happens all the time and I was surprised not a lot of people answered this thread...maybe they do not feel comfortable to admit they have been through it?? We are not here to judge however!!your having a joke people arnt like that surely
So you dont beleive me when i say these situations REALLY exist?? I wish it was a joke!!!! 
no i beleive you but have difficulty in thinking why someoneb would want to hurt another person in ths unplesant way
AAa Brunette tis a intresting subject this but one that hurts and reminds me the past.Wedward is right the hurt cheaters leave behind can not even be descibed.People think the grass is greener on the other side i think .
I think there should be a law charging people that cheat with a jail sentence or something .Well both i could say the cheater and the third party(if a marriage is involved).lol
I think there should be a law charging people that cheat with a jail sentence or something .Well both i could say the cheater and the third party(if a marriage is involved).lol
Of course people have been cheating on their partners... for hundreds of years, its nothing new. The majority of people, male and female, seem to get a kick or something out of it? Whether its the act of infidelity, the lies, the sneaking around, or something else that makes it exciting.... who knows?
I realise this is not what you asking... I believe also that a LOT of people want to make sure of the next partner, BEFORE dumping the present one... a form of cowardice?
I realise this is not what you asking... I believe also that a LOT of people want to make sure of the next partner, BEFORE dumping the present one... a form of cowardice?
bl--dy cynical its all so sad not for methis cheating game .for me love is all
Well if marriage is involved I can find a reason why people cheat....maybe because its too difficult to go through all the legal matters and having to split the assets plus "loosing" the kids....so why cheat if you're not married is an issue that needs to be discussed more! If there are no ties and you obviously do not love the partner (if you love you don't cheat fullstop!) Smoky I think you got the closest to the real facts!! 
A cheater is a cheater wheather married or single .A person thats cheats might even be madly in love with his partner that beeing a wife or a girlfriend husband ,boyfriens(have to be fair here its not only men that cheat) but they still do it because it's part of their character and they way they are.Every person has his or her own moral beliefs and for each the right way of living.
I guess some people get a kick out of it.It's never happened to me, but I have a male friend who starting seeing this particular girl who is madly in love with him. I knew that he was cheating on her with his ex-girlfriend, and even slept together. I asked him why he was doing this,and he said that he has too much love to just concentrate on one woman.On finding out more why he lets the "girlfriend" believe he is committed to her,he said that he enjoys her company,because she is smart etc etc, and does not want to hurt her feelings.I found this very confusing since he was already hurting her feelings even though she has not discovered what he has/is doing. mmmmm....now that is someone who is confused.
love is to trust& honour[old fashioned maybe but true]and keep yourself only for the one u love anyhing else is not love and people who dont trust and honour in love are absolute bounders and cheats
I witnessed one of these interesting goings on too...... went on for a very long time.... about thirteen years!
He was married, she was divorced. His wife and her were best friends. The wife was unhappy with the deterioration of her marriage,and confided in her friend who consoled her.
Eventually, the wife in despair took herself off and filed for divorce.
Two months later the ex-husband and the best friend got married. Asking for an explanation, ex-wife was told "We hoped that one day you would go away, and we could marry".
This couple were deliriously happy... for about 2yrs, and then divorced.
So it looks like its the "game" that is fun... without the game life is too tame?
He was married, she was divorced. His wife and her were best friends. The wife was unhappy with the deterioration of her marriage,and confided in her friend who consoled her.
Eventually, the wife in despair took herself off and filed for divorce.
Two months later the ex-husband and the best friend got married. Asking for an explanation, ex-wife was told "We hoped that one day you would go away, and we could marry".
This couple were deliriously happy... for about 2yrs, and then divorced.
So it looks like its the "game" that is fun... without the game life is too tame?
I haven't but I would never judge anybody who was unfaithful, there could be a number of valid reasons, some of which have already been mentioned.
I draw the line at dating a married man though, I have too much respect for womankind. We have enough problems without hurting each other.
I draw the line at dating a married man though, I have too much respect for womankind. We have enough problems without hurting each other.
that is oh so true we humans r so sillylifes to short so be faithfull and enjoy your life
No cheating while married or in any other serious relationship but I've been on the receiving end and wouldn't want to treat someone I cared about in that fashion.
I believe people aren't thinking about their partners when they do such things because it's really rare to find someone who is evil enough to intentionaly put that kind of hurt on another.
I believe people aren't thinking about their partners when they do such things because it's really rare to find someone who is evil enough to intentionaly put that kind of hurt on another.
true but sad fact people cheat and that i dont understand cause if your table at home is well laid why do u want to eat elsewhere its better to help lay the table at home than lose it through bad eating habits ... [book early for astria and meet ythe people who post for real ]
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This goes out to the girls...have you ever fallen for a guy who was already comitted? If the answer is yes, what happened eventually? Did you have to "share" him? Did he leave his girlfriend?
Would love to know your views about this topic...have a great day!