Selenite: 'Hello how're you doing?' Does not constitute an engaging fitst message to a woman on a dating site! Please! Get creative! Ask a question about her profile or something else. But give her a reason to answer the message other than telling you how she is which she won't to a total stranger. Unless she replies 'Fine. You?' Then what will talk about next the weather? Or what time you had lunch?
Give yourself a chance to be replied to. Send a message that shows you read her profile. Mention somerhing you have in commun may be
What's wrong with "Hello".??? It's a perfectly ok to start a conversation....That's all good conversationalists need..."hello"..
Crikey, it's no wonder there are so many cranky men and women on here....far too many expectations from total strangers from the get go...
All I ever get from women are one to three word introductions.. Anymore than that, and I know its a scam... No way would I write down some long winded crap, and send it to a woman I don't know yet.. Seems like women would get the creeps from men who do that??
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when covid clears i am visiting malaga.will you meet me for a drink?
I am serious. I am going to malaga anyway
If you want to see my photo i will upload it to an image site and send you the link by message
It'll be tomorrow i am on bed now and would have to go to the computer