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Dec 4, 2021 10:48 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
'Hello how're you doing?' Does not constitute an engaging fitst message to a woman on a dating site!
Please!
Get creative!
Ask a question about her profile or something else. But give her a reason to answer the message other than telling you how she is which she won't to a total stranger. Unless she replies 'Fine. You?' Then what will talk about next the weather? Or what time you had lunch? doh

Give yourself a chance to be replied to.
Send a message that shows you read her profile. Mention somerhing you have in commun may be wine
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Dec 4, 2021 11:11 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
The other side of this is that putting in an effort and not getting a reply can be disheartening.
To me 'hi' is more than ok. Afterall if you meet somebody in person, that is usually how a conversation will start.
It's a greeting to elicit a response. With a response comes the conversation ..
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Dec 4, 2021 11:13 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
Destiny and fate might play a part
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Dec 4, 2021 11:14 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
grin

popcorn
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Dec 4, 2021 11:17 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
Modigliani35
Modigliani35Modigliani35Wilton, Connecticut USA1 Threads 17 Posts
Selenite: 'Hello how're you doing?' Does not constitute an engaging fitst message to a woman on a dating site!
Please!
Get creative!
Ask a question about her profile or something else. But give her a reason to answer the message other than telling you how she is which she won't to a total stranger. Unless she replies 'Fine. You?' Then what will talk about next the weather? Or what time you had lunch?

Give yourself a chance to be replied to.
Send a message that shows you read her profile. Mention somerhing you have in commun may be
Right.....? banana cheers
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Dec 4, 2021 11:20 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Geno2809: The other side of this is that putting in an effort and not getting a reply can be disheartening.
To me 'hi' is more than ok. Afterall if you meet somebody in person, that is usually how a conversation will start.
It's a greeting to elicit a response. With a response comes the conversation ..
She asks for it Geno as she pointedly ignores certain people she doesn't like the age-old female trait of the cold shoulderlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh I will not say silly moorolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 4, 2021 11:24 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
tomcatty: She asks for it Geno as she pointedly ignores certain people she doesn't like the age-old female trait of the cold shoulder I will not say silly moo
I'm going with .. I have no idea what you are talking about here Tom ..
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Dec 4, 2021 11:27 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Geno2809: I'm going with .. I have no idea what you are talking about here Tom ..
come on , be a manlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
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Dec 4, 2021 11:28 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
tomcatty: come on , be a man
Last time I looked I was still a man.
Are you having a pop at Sel?
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Dec 4, 2021 11:31 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Geno2809: Last time I looked I was still a man.
Are you having a pop at Sel?
Yes with good reason in my opinion but I have no quarrel with youhandshake
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Dec 4, 2021 11:38 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
tomcatty: Yes with good reason in my opinion but I have no quarrel with you
Ok, but that's between you two.
Personally I don't let internet strangers bother me tbh. If someone wants to chat, great .. if not .. meh ..

I'm glad to hear that you have no quarrel with meTom handshake
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Dec 4, 2021 11:42 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Geno2809: Ok, but that's between you two.
Personally I don't let internet strangers bother me tbh. If someone wants to chat, great .. if not .. meh ..

I'm glad to hear that you have no quarrel with meTom
Geno2809: Ok, but that's between you two.
Personally I don't let internet strangers bother me tbh. If someone wants to chat, great .. if not .. meh ..

I'm glad to hear that you have no quarrel with meTom
Geno2809: Ok, but that's between you two.
Personally I don't let internet strangers bother me tbh. If someone wants to chat, great .. if not .. meh ..

I'm glad to hear that you have no quarrel with meTom
Ok,
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Dec 4, 2021 11:43 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Geno2809: The other side of this is that putting in an effort and not getting a reply can be disheartening.
To me 'hi' is more than ok. Afterall if you meet somebody in person, that is usually how a conversation will start.
It's a greeting to elicit a response. With a response comes the conversation ..
While a agree with you in principle, a little compliment goes a long long way .
Example : “ You look amazing in your picture profiles , especial the one from the 1960s”. laugh
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Dec 4, 2021 11:43 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
tomcatty: Ok,
Dunno how that got triplicateddancing
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Dec 4, 2021 11:46 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
tomcatty: Dunno how that got triplicated
Maybe because you were really really really ok with what I said laugh
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Dec 4, 2021 11:47 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
Youcannow: While a agree with you in principle, a little compliment goes a long long way .
Example : “ You look amazing in your picture profiles , especial the one from the 1960s”.
Haha .. probably not though laugh
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Dec 4, 2021 11:49 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Geno2809: Maybe because you were really really really ok with what I said
laugh
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Dec 4, 2021 11:49 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
tomcatty: She asks for it Geno as she pointedly ignores certain people she doesn't like the age-old female trait of the cold shoulder I will not say silly moo
What do you mean?
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Dec 4, 2021 11:50 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Youcannow: While a agree with you in principle, a little compliment goes a long long way .
Example : “ You look amazing in your picture profiles , especial the one from the 1960s”.
rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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Dec 4, 2021 11:53 AM CST Guys! Guys! Guys!
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Selenite: What do you mean?
I've forgotten. Carry on Covid moment over.
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