If they don't turn you on... ( Archived) (18)

Sep 19, 2005 8:34 AM CST If they don't turn you on...
Optional
OptionalOptional8013, Canterbury New Zealand14 Threads 182 Posts
If they don't turn you on physically, then...
1. do you hold out for one that does?
2. try to find something about them that does?
3. call it a loss and start a physical relationship anyway?
4. don't care as long as they care about you?

There's lots of other choices, I'd love to hear some honest answers.

Me, I'd rather sleep with someone who turns me on and I love, occassionally it's been both, but more often than not in the past I've settled for someone who is just a great person. This seems a bit sad really but is probably a good reflection of reality and available choice.
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Sep 19, 2005 2:19 PM CST If they don't turn you on...
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
If I care for someone that turns me on. (answer 1,2,3 and 4 for me)
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Sep 19, 2005 2:28 PM CST If they don't turn you on...
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
Me too, hon.

Enchiladas are good...heh:P
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Sep 19, 2005 2:51 PM CST If they don't turn you on...
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
I tried the no physical attraction route. It worked for a while because he was attracted to me. But after a short time, I just dreaded his calls and finally told him it was just not working out.

Better to just say the "let's just be friends" and assume they'll go away because they don't want to be just friends.
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Sep 20, 2005 6:35 AM CST If they don't turn you on...
Optional
OptionalOptional8013, Canterbury New Zealand14 Threads 182 Posts
Love the answers! keep em comming.
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Sep 20, 2005 7:25 AM CST If they don't turn you on...
DamnitsCloudy
DamnitsCloudyDamnitsCloudyLexington, USA22 Threads 2,578 Posts
I havn't been in many deep relationships, but the ones I have, I didn't care about pyschical attraction because I felt loved and wanted to some degree. For someone who is as ugly as I am, psyicallity(sp?) just dosn't exsist.


Allen

P.S. Sorry for the spelling, I just woke up lol
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Sep 20, 2005 7:38 AM CST If they don't turn you on...
grrrrrrrrrr ok allen i have had enough of u dissing yourself!



you are not ugly!
you wanna know what really is???



we better start another thread for this one!



shall i start it off?

cruelty is ugly
someone with no respect for life
or dignity or human rights




lets get real


sorry didnt mean ta yell atcha just when u first wake up, lol just quit with the image, we all dont get u that way.
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Sep 20, 2005 7:51 AM CST If they don't turn you on...
Optional
OptionalOptional8013, Canterbury New Zealand14 Threads 182 Posts
Yeah girl you tell em.
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Sep 20, 2005 8:07 AM CST If they don't turn you on...
DamnitsCloudy
DamnitsCloudyDamnitsCloudyLexington, USA22 Threads 2,578 Posts
You know when Akdo gets on the case, somthing is definatly wrong lol. But ok, I'll try to think of myself in a better light =)


Allen
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Sep 20, 2005 9:42 AM CST If they don't turn you on...
:o)


xxx
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Sep 20, 2005 1:33 PM CST If they don't turn you on...
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
If they don't turn you on then turn them on so that you can get turned on together. I am partial to 2.
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Sep 20, 2005 5:07 PM CST If they don't turn you on...
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
Really good set of questions, Optional, thanks. Really made me think and had to come back and look at again.

Roy
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Sep 20, 2005 5:24 PM CST If they don't turn you on...
2good2b_bad
2good2b_bad2good2b_badSt. Petersburg, FL, Florida USA9 Threads 176 Posts
if they don't turn you on, I think its a mute point. But I would guess it is a matter of your desperation to be in a relationship. I can't see how this would be a healthy relationship though. Might even be borderline selfish on your part. You're obviously not going to feel the same way the other person does. In this respect you are only setting them up for a fall. Seems cruel to me. But it's your call, if you think you can make yourself care for someone else................................whatever.


If they don't turn me on................ How do I tell my obese, mean, twice as old as me boss to lay off. It's to the point I am ready to go off on her. She finds reaspns to stand waaaayy to close to me. I politely step away and she closes the distance. Gross. Plain gross. What's a nice way to say "you sicken me with your voice, attitude, personality, body, and you also scare me."
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Sep 20, 2005 6:01 PM CST If they don't turn you on...
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
2good sounds like she is invading your personal space. If you could tell her she is invading your space by explaining it to her how you feel about it she might back off some. She may not be aware of how you feel about the invasion.

Roy
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Sep 20, 2005 6:03 PM CST If they don't turn you on...
DamnitsCloudy
DamnitsCloudyDamnitsCloudyLexington, USA22 Threads 2,578 Posts
I hope I don't scare anyone with my 300 pound body..lol


Allen

P.S. Don't say anything to Akdo...she'll get the hounds of on me if you do! lol
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Sep 20, 2005 6:11 PM CST If they don't turn you on...
2good2b_bad
2good2b_bad2good2b_badSt. Petersburg, FL, Florida USA9 Threads 176 Posts
Oh, she knows; I already told her she scares me. Just seemed to make her more determined. Once again. gag, gross.
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Sep 20, 2005 8:54 PM CST If they don't turn you on...
Optional
OptionalOptional8013, Canterbury New Zealand14 Threads 182 Posts
Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself in this matter, I told someone once on no uncertain terms that I hated them touching me and time wasn't going to make it any better.
You can't work when you're worried about something like that becuase you are always waiting for them to come around again.
Tell her she'd be better off leaving you alone, it's not cute, it's not funny and you won't come around.
Other that than I suggest you hire a drunken mess off the street (you might have to pay them a bit:) and get him to follow her around like a love sick puppy and see how she likes it.
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Sep 21, 2005 1:02 AM CST If they don't turn you on...
ALLEN!!!!!!






LOL








U ARE NOT 300 LBS!!!!!!! and even if u were u cant hide that easily! lol :o)
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