I don't know if it was back in my childhood days, when people knocked around long hair, but hey, I do love long hair on a guy, speacially if he has blonde hair and blue eyes.lol. I really don't know what to say here, so I am shooting in the dark.I enjoy gettting responses, from guys, but when you are on a certain income and don't drive,then you try to stick to limits of distance.That make sense.I have been hurt several times, but like they say, got to keep trying.Shame that certain types of guys ruin possibilities, for others.That makes me picky, as I find I attract the wrong, but same types, of guys.
cutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA7,772 posts
girlfriend I hear ya.i seem to have a "Welcome a**hole" sign on my forehead. I like all men but love blondes and blue eyes are a plus ;).welcome to the forums by the way.
I use the word 'picky', but you know what? I hate it. People aren't picky; they know what turns them on, and what doesn't. They know what food their tastebuds like, and what they don't. Etc. And I know what you means about 'attracting the wrong type of guy'. I really don't believe in that either though. I think it's just that when a guy gets up the nerve to talk to you, he's being on his best behavior, most of the time. Then his true self comes out later on. He may be meek, or Type-A. You never know. We also never know what 'hits' his buttons. Same for women! LOL No one truly knows anyone else until you've hung out with them in every situation you can think of. Also...Watch how a man talks about, and acts around, his mom, his dad, and his grandparents. Watch him during what could turn into an anger situation. Watch him during a sports-game. Watch him around someone else's kids. Amazing what just sitting-back-and-watching can do for us :) Have a beautiful night, all, Phyllis
Oh...and I use to LOVVVVE blue/blonde. But over the past several years, I've been drawn to the darker hair and eyes. I even knew a guy in school that had jet-black hair and the most beautiful dark blue eyes, omg...Where are ya, Kevin?? LOL
I don't think i was ever attracted to guys with long hair. I've always said i'm not attracted to blonde hair guys either but i've had a few in my day and i still remember them as great loves of my life. Now that i'm older and more sure of what i want i LOVE guys who are bald or shave their heads, goatees and stocky or a few extra lbs. MMMmmmmmm I'm droolin just thinkin about it. Hahaha
Hi dee dee. I grew up with a choice of a crew cut or a flat top but when I left home I let my hair grow long. Then one day I walked right into a stop sign, bammm, and I got my hair cut, lol. Oh, say can you see, if you can my hair is to short, lol. I used to wear my hair long as sign of rebellion but long hair is a lot of trouble. People with thick hair can even get migraines from long hair.
I like certain styles and put that in my poetry. I like to give people the opportunity to know others. Sometimes you can learn a person better from watching them be with others. I know everybody needs their space and time to make up their own mind. Nothing like having a bunch of friends. You are who you are by the way you are on here. Some of us live very far from others and some us live closer. I hope everybody has the opportunity to be themselves and to meet friends. I don't think you can ever have enough friends. To let a person have friends and enjoy their friends is the greatest gift you can give somebody. You can't always be there for everyone but if they have friends you know they will be ok just in case something happens to you. Love is saying, I am who I am and you are who you are and it is ok with us both. People who can't accept that have trouble finding love.
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