Hi Jane...there's been many threads dedicated to this...but here's my answer...
I have been on CS for a year and some now...made alot of awesome "friends" originally mostly from the states...and some who i actually got to meet in person...it was an amazing time.. When they started the "Canada Forums" several months ago..I got the opportunity to meet more Canadians..and again made some really incredible friends....
As far as "hook ups" go...I have met and dated (dating?) three from the site...the first relationship lasted 5 months...the second only a month (in that time i had only been with him in person twice) and this third one has been two months...and going strong..
Hopefully you learn from each "experience"..both good and bad...because "internet" dating can be quite deceptive (to put it mildly)...
Thanks for the response wikked! Nice to hear something positive. I figured there are a ton of threads about this topic but wanted to start a fresh one, hear some success stories here in Canada, make some new friends. New to the site and hope the experience is a positive one...... Jane
LOL...I know i summed it up in a "nutshell"...it wasn't really like that...there were a lot of "frogs" to kiss before finding my "prince"
Bell Canada was seriously considering making me a shareholder for the amount of money I spent in long distance charges...
My cell phone bill was no better...in August and September (when i thought my "true love" might have lived in Montana...) my cell bill was $1500.00 (could have travelled there and cut out the "air time" on that bill huh??)
I hear you! I signed up with Shaw for a bundle with internet, full cable and unlimited long distance home phone for $125.00 a month. My long distance was killing me with Bell when I lived in Ontario. No quality or service difference with Shaw digital home phone...would be crazy not to sign up for that deal. Is $44.00 a month, full features, no hidden costs, flat rate every month. And I have made many, many long calls back to Toronto since moving. I think Rogers has the same kind of package in Ontario.
There is probably a thread here somewhere about kissing frogs no? Ha!
HI Just wanted you to know that I have met my match on CS. WE have been seeing each other for 2 months now and this relationship has moved really quite quickly. We are in a long distance relationship but we are making plans for the future..
I have met 3 people face to face from CS. 2 friends only and 1 I dated for awhile but he moved away and was younger and we just wasn't meant for one another.
I am in another site and I had met a few. 1 I dated and others just friends.
I wish I can said the same as the other ones.......all the 3 I have ever met they were so bad.... so bad!!!......I just give up the whole thing and I even chance my profile to just find a friend!!....
bailey_beezNiagara Falls, Ontario Canada1,118 posts
I've met my match - although he wasn't from CS- he's fabulous-- wonderful & caring...couldn't imagine being happier- we're now living together! Yippee! Best of luck to you Jane & welcome to CS
I know it's hard to keep positive when you meet Mr. Wrong.You figure it would be easy to connect to a great person on a singles wesbite, considering a billion people are online everyday, around the world. Sometimes I think my Mom was right, all the good ones are taken!
Good for you girl! At least you ahve someone to keep you warm in the winter now! Problem is, there are more frogs than ever out there and the good ones are either taken or just plain hard to find!
Thanks my friend Janebond....well you will be vert surprise....the last one just left me via text messaging....and one hour later he was in MSN and told me he was going to get wild with his new gf!!...He was a long distance relationship .... I met him through the other dating site....I'm so confussed ....
I have had my share of "long distance" relationships...and when i say long distance i mean further than i can drive in a couple of hours.....
It goes without saying that these relationships require much more effort on both parts to keep it going...that and a strong committment to one another...but that doesn't mean it cannot work..
The one couple that i know from on this site that has remained together the longest (and is still together) he lives here in Ontario and she in the States...so that should at least give some hope that it can indeed work...
Its just a matter of "weeding out the wacko's"....
l also have meet a few guys from the internet. One was a long distance relationship and it lasted almost 2 years but he took a job in Guam and since l have children l didnt go wuth him, he is now married and very happy and its not to me lol. The last guy l met through POF and we were together for 10 months, l found out he was seeing other ladies when he wasnt with me, busy man he was but l figured it all out and said, get out and dont let the door hit ya in the butt.... l learned alot and am now looking for friends first and then maybe something more...internet dating is a great thing, you can learn so much just chatting on here befoer you meet, its not what someone looks like, its whats inside that counts and you definitly get that on here.
funny you ask. I met a wonderful woman on this site. I am sure she is the one for me. the funny part is that she flowered me first. All I can tell you is we have spent every weekend together since our first meeting, even though she lives over an hour away. The best advice I can give is to take a chance. You may make a friend, or the one connection we are all hoping for. don't give up. I was only on this site for a short time(1 month) andtried to be active on the forums. that's the best way for people to get to know who you really are. I am a firm believer in total honesty, and I think others appreciate it. good luck!
Good for you 42..... A hours drive is not too bad. Peterborough is a pretty place, been there twice when I lived in Toronto. What a change of place, so peaceful compared to the frantic pace of T.O..... Good luck with relationship and for taking a chance.
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