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Ok--time to level. I have always been one of those people who has been in a relationship. I'm not one for flings and have never had a one night stand (though I came close--guilt prevented me) but from the moment I turned 14, I have had a man friend very close by...or one in the wings.
Here's the question:
Is it unhealthy to always be looking for a relationship? Shouldn't we try to stay single for awhile to build on our inner strength and heal from old wounds when relationships end?
In a world where it is less than ok to be single, how do we draw the line?
I admit that even now as I find myself coming into a very introspective and aware time in my life, I still want a man to hold me and kiss me, dammmmmmmit!
I know that for me, loving myself has been (and likely always will be) a challenge. Is that what we need to really make it work?
I have recently heard that love and relationships can be addictions too!!
Yet another argument for singlehood...
Still doesn't help the lonliness, eh?
Any thoughts?