sweetXstacyOPVirginia Beach, Virginia USA454 posts
First of all... THIS IS NOT ABOUT ME. It is just a question in general.
I always see people that become attached to each other very quickly....so what would you do if you were thrown a curveball.
Guys -- what if you have been talking to somebody for a few weeks/months...you are extremely into her and she announced she was pregnant. (She didn't know before she started talking to you.) Would you end the "romantic" feelings and just be friends? Or would you be able to except that she is now the mother of 3 instead of 2 (or whatever).
honestly it depends, if i'm sure she is a very nice person and she just did it because she didn't want me to run away at the first place, i would excuse her
sweetXstacyOPVirginia Beach, Virginia USA454 posts
Yea...what a jerk...
It happened to me in a way also. I knew I was pregnant but didn't say anything when I was asked out. We dated a few times and I told him. He has been her daddy for 12 years now...even though we have been divorced for almost 7. He picks her up every weekend and she is daddys girl.
Well then he knows what could happen so it is his responsiblity to accept whatever happens and what he is getting into. Maybe take steps to make sure the child biological father pays alimony.
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
I would love Suzy through thick and thin. It would be her business what happened before she met me. I would love her and the child. She is a wonderful mother, and that child would be blessed to have her as a mom.
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I always see people that become attached to each other very quickly....so what would you do if you were thrown a curveball.
Guys -- what if you have been talking to somebody for a few weeks/months...you are extremely into her and she announced she was pregnant. (She didn't know before she started talking to you.) Would you end the "romantic" feelings and just be friends? Or would you be able to except that she is now the mother of 3 instead of 2 (or whatever).