IF U WERE CAUGHT IN THE TRAP OF AN IMPOSTER, WHAT WOULD YOU DO? ( Archived) (11)

Being caught in the trap of an imposter means you are already in the relationship before realising that you have the worse person than he/she portrayed, the very basis of which you agreed to connect to him/her. Maybe you have already tied the knot and invested more than your heart into the relationship. You may have lost other potential opportunities because of this. You are at cross roads and confused. Any idea of a way out?

play dead!......oh wait thats for bears nm........

Buy my own house and move out :)

And I did LOL

Well don't know the details, but if you already tied the knot, means you are married? If you are, there is something call divorced. Hurtful experience, but a lesson too, next time is more careful.

I have two kids who I'm responsible for, so no in a million years will put them at risk, so I do little research with the information I have (also something call background check, could be a good resource, never too careful) and if for any reason I find he lie to me, enough reason for me to get out. BTW I would let the person know before doing the background check on him also I explain the reasons why. If he doesn't agreed or get insulted also enough reason to get out. To tell you the truth never have done it, I trust
my instincts.
I think the best way to know someone is when a problem arrives and/or are under pressure for any reason and it doesn’t have to be relating to us, how they deal with it.

Don't worry about the opportunities you have may lost, there were never there and if one was it will come back. Whatever is going to be will be.
So my friend, you fall, you get up, take care of the bruises and keep walking with your chin up.

I just can't imagine getting involved with Dr. Jekyll and ending up with Mrs. Hyde out of the blue. To me that would signal a call to 911 for a medical emergency. People just don't change that quickly if you REALLY knew them to begin with.

I do know that a lot of couples seem to have weird communication problems. But I just can't imagine that. I've always been able to know my partners very well very quickly. And I've always opened myself to them completely early on.

Part of that is due to my complete openness and ability to communicate. Part of it is due to the fact that I simply won't pursue a relationship with someone else who isn't also completely open and willing to communicate.

So the idea of getting that far along with someone I really don't know is just a nonsensical idea to me.

Another area in life where there just arn't any easy answers

Two choices really
Either follow the heart or follow the mind

And the basis for this decision should be the welfare of yor emotions and sanity Lol

But use the mind with the heart for clarity in decision making.

Much luck.

I married a man that was all any woman ever wanted but once married he started to beat me up,it come to the point that when he went out for a drink one night he come back to his cases on the front step and locks changed,then i got a solicitor and divorced him.

Well, I'd just make one simple phone call. That call would be to my nephew, who just happens to be the Chief Of Police, but looks more like a thug. Have had to ask for his help before, and would not hesitate to ask again if I thought I was in danger. (never hurts to have a cop in the family).

look at what is actually real.


sometimes the imposter is a better version of the original
sometimes not....




lol




personally... i'd bail.