What would be more likely to bother you in a relationship? ( Archived) (46)

do you mean me?

Nooooo! taythepoet! He's a man but he chose attention

i think many man like attention eventhough they are not able to give it What do you think?

I think the more attention you give them in the bedroom, the less attention they want from you when you are out of bed And the less attention you give them outside, they think you are unreachable and it becomes a challenge for them to win your heart and they will do anything to get attention from you in bed

If you are getting attention then why would you need space?

Of those two, not enough space would definitely bother me more.

I don’t need a partner who has to have my attention 24/7. That would be crippling.

Having said that though, I can imagine living with someone where we are basically together 24/7. Being together doesn’t necessarily imply that you aren’t being given ‘space’.

I mean, I could be writing on my book, and she could be doing whatever she likes to do, painting a picture, reading a book, watching a movie, or even practicing a musical instrument. She’s doing her thing, and I’m doing mine. We’re ‘together’ but not ‘in each other’s space’.

I certainly don’t need time alone, or to go out with the guys, or that sort of thing. Although, I’m sure I’d get time alone anyway. I mean, even two people who desire to be together 24/7 are going to end up finding themselves apart on occasion because that’s what life is like. :laugh;

So it’s a difficult question to answer easily. I don’t mind her being near, (in fact I like that), but I don’t want a woman who demands my constant attention all the time. That would not work at all.

To play ice hockey?

Just a guess.

Good thread.

You'l get all you can handle from me.

Not enough attention...To me it shows a complete lack of interest!!!!!!!