Express yourself (11)

Apr 1, 2007 3:03 AM CST Express yourself
pearl777
pearl777pearl777Plovdiv, Bulgaria242 Threads 33 Polls 4,812 Posts
How you express in gestures , by deeds and put into words your feelings to your partner ?
Apr 1, 2007 8:11 AM CST Express yourself
busdriver
busdriverbusdriverLagos, Faro Portugal7 Threads 740 Posts
I wash-up or clean the house or look after the children. Affectionate touches and excessive praise. I say ‘I love you’ in public. hug
Apr 1, 2007 6:54 PM CST Express yourself
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
one of the best ways is using the new technology...writte him an email about how you are feeling, even when he is in the toilet...that way you wont be interrupted, you will express all your feelings, giving examples...

Afterwards, all you have to do is to discuss the underlined subjects.

This way you'll give him the responsiblity of thinking carefully about the issues and prepare them for the comfront...a soft comfront...

Starting like: "so, what do u think?"...i'll have to think...it's a challenge baby...cheers
Apr 2, 2007 4:13 AM CST Express yourself
ivanalfista
ivanalfistaivanalfistaMarsascala, Xlokk Malta4 Threads 71 Posts
be there when you are really wanted,,,i

hug comfort
Apr 2, 2007 5:55 PM CST Express yourself
antcus
antcusantcusSt Paul's Bay, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 948 Posts
I think the question was how do you express by gestures and deeds and put into words.
So really there are three questions there.
How do you express in gestures?
by deeds?
How do you put in words?

Three seperate answers.

Writing an e-mail cannot be a gesture, or a deed or words, unless you consider the "written word" words.

Maybe the question was more aimed at integrating body language with actions and words. Only the author can correct me if I am wrong
Apr 2, 2007 6:57 PM CST Express yourself
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Yes, you are right about the purpose of the thread...really, i made my own interpretation of it...sorry to the author and to you antcus.

I see you are very caucious, that's good:).

Well, it's almost 1am...i arrived 5 minuts ago...can't take the thread into account.
I need some sleep.

Hugs...
May 7, 2007 5:36 AM CST Express yourself
ileteo
ileteoileteoBucharest, Muntenia Romania3 Posts
Just be yourself and he will understand your feelings. We need the words but sometimes they seems to be so empty...
Put thenderness in gestures and words ! We all need it !
May 7, 2007 7:26 AM CST Express yourself
zeebow
zeebowzeebowBruxelles, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium1 Threads 21 Posts
Could be anything impulsive that shows loving emotion..i think!!

An unexpected hug while she/he is cooking/cleaning...
A little chocolate/small flower/personal message left on or under the pillow
A new perfume/aftershave/deo left in the bathroom
Offering a massage, without being asked. ;)

..any unexpected little surprise works for me, has'nt got to be costly or very complicated.
May 7, 2007 7:29 AM CST Express yourself
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
Have you ever watched a parents face when they are gazing at their child? Its a special mixture of pride, love, possession, and maybe other stuff too....

Well, I have seen that look on some folks faces when they look at their partner.... and its unmistably love.... unconditional love.... from the heart. The same sort that you give freely to your child.

So, the day you can look at your partner with the same love feeling... they will feel it.

Even animals have this look when they look at their family.
May 7, 2007 7:33 AM CST Express yourself
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
Ah sorry, something I forgot..... To me, one of the danger signals of a false lover is the indiscriminate use of the endearment words... "Darling", "Sweetheart", etc....... For I have usually found those people are the most dangerous... covering up with words of endearment.

Doing tooooo much is also a cover up.... something is going to be required in return... they just buttering the bread in preparation for the jam they want spread.....?
May 7, 2007 8:32 AM CST Express yourself
zeebow
zeebowzeebowBruxelles, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium1 Threads 21 Posts
hey smoky...tend to agree!! Too much of both words and deeds, may start making us suspicious that something bad is going to happen, but knowing your partner well enough to know the difference 'should' normally give us a good indication of what is genuine or false. Its a question of trust in the end!!
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