Little white lies and your match (14)

Apr 16, 2007 8:39 PM CST Little white lies and your match
icucmeicu2
icucmeicu2icucmeicu2Edmonton, Alberta Canada18 Threads 192 Posts
Here is a great topic, and some will see as just basic advice. On how to improve your chances on meeting a match that will work out.

Don't say your 5' 6" if thats what you are when wearing 4" heals. Don't say your average weight if over 30 pounds over weight, if all else fails here ask a doctor. And average weight means to your frame not the average population lol. If you have children, say yes lol. If you smoke often as in 3 or more times a week be honest with your smoking. Same applies to your drinking.
You have to think, your profile is the way others will get to know you.
Do you want them to know you as a person that can not tell the truth, can not be trusted.

First be completely honest about all. Now there may be questions your not comfortable answering and would leave to a dating situation. The basics if you cant answer and without lying then really how do you expect to find a match.

People will lie about age, weight, and if they have children or not. Ahh they should love me, no matter what. Hmmmm wake up. Then others will lie about interests and what they are looking for, Hmmm hard to find a match then, if they want some one with at least some interests they have. Then again some people just don't read the profiles or walk around with blinders on. And see and hear only what they want. Just forget them and go on to something real.
Prefer not to say either means yes or you agree with it, your only fooling yourself.

Take care all.
Apr 16, 2007 8:51 PM CST Little white lies and your match
foxyone1
foxyone1foxyone1Quesnel BC, British Columbia Canada50 Threads 1,772 Posts
did i hear someone say ( big and black ),, lol
Apr 16, 2007 8:55 PM CST Little white lies and your match
tazmaninangel
tazmaninangeltazmaninangelEdmonton, Alberta Canada118 Threads 1 Polls 2,608 Posts
lmao - I hear they are not REALLY black.....rolling on the floor laughing but foxy we're talking lies....
Apr 16, 2007 8:55 PM CST Little white lies and your match
lefty
leftyleftyBurlington, Ontario Canada4 Threads 454 Posts
I thinking about (little and white)


crying crying



After the profile, you need to do some research.



confused
Apr 16, 2007 8:57 PM CST Little white lies and your match
foxyone1
foxyone1foxyone1Quesnel BC, British Columbia Canada50 Threads 1,772 Posts
ok ok,, lies it is,, all lies suck
Apr 16, 2007 9:18 PM CST Little white lies and your match
Tapestry
TapestryTapestryRichmond Hill, Ontario Canada2 Threads 222 Posts
Well put. Not quite sure what purpose lies will serve if you ever actually plan on meeting someone, but it sounds like the lies are alive and well out there!! I keep hearing this over and over from guys and gals alike!

Cheers!cheers
Apr 16, 2007 9:34 PM CST Little white lies and your match
icucmeicu2
icucmeicu2icucmeicu2Edmonton, Alberta Canada18 Threads 192 Posts
Lol its a topic like any other, about just that being honest and finding a match. There are funny topics serious ones.
At least something to think about, when making a profile.
Simple and easy, the truth.
Apr 16, 2007 9:47 PM CST Little white lies and your match
Tapestry
TapestryTapestryRichmond Hill, Ontario Canada2 Threads 222 Posts
I hear ya. Just this weekend, a girlfriend told me she met a guy from another site and she walked in to the bar they were meeting at. She took one look at him after he approached her, told him to update his profile and walked out!

She survived the trauma of it all and was off on another date the next night!!! dancing
Apr 16, 2007 9:49 PM CST Little white lies and your match
icucmeicu2
icucmeicu2icucmeicu2Edmonton, Alberta Canada18 Threads 192 Posts
Well that happens to both women and men on these sites.
Oh the lovely high school picture, I'm athletic or at least was in high school lol. And many other topics.
Apr 16, 2007 9:54 PM CST Little white lies and your match
shyatfirst
shyatfirstshyatfirstcobourg, Ontario Canada22 Threads 1,462 Posts
I one I don't get is showing a pictures which is 5 years old and not telling anyone. Beerbelly and two chins later.... And they still believe they look the same.

Okay then roll eyes
Apr 17, 2007 5:19 PM CST Little white lies and your match
tbsob
tbsobtbsobAylmer, Canada22 Posts
I agree with pretty much everything that's been posted in these threads so far. I think we've all had at least one encounter with someone who lied about something. My thoughts are - as I believe was already stated - what do you stand to gain from meeting someone who thinks you're someone else altogether? I met up with a guy who had a picture up from when he was 20 (who is now 35). I had asked him at some point if that was a recent pic, and he lied about without hesitation. I just figured he looked young for his ageconfused . LOL. The thing is, when I met him, he actually looked better than his pic - more mature. But, I can't be with someone who lies, for better or worse. I think that goes for most people.dunno
May 16, 2007 8:41 PM CST Little white lies and your match
Tommm
TommmTommmlondon, Ontario Canada2 Threads 219 Posts
Ok Ok,I confess then..this guy in my picture is not really me..I lied and I had no choice but to lie cuz if I put my real picture up I would be swamped with emails from women lusting after my body..Confession just made my soul feel bettertongue
May 17, 2007 3:19 PM CST Little white lies and your match
CaptainMurray
CaptainMurrayCaptainMurraySelkirk, Manitoba Canada59 Threads 2,130 Posts
I won't lie to you lefty
May 17, 2007 8:23 PM CST Little white lies and your match
SimplePleasure
SimplePleasureSimplePleasureToronto & Surroundings, Ontario Canada3 Threads 20 Posts
Personally, think that ALOT of people think they are on here to get dates and meet people and possibily find the right one, but all in all they are really just here to mess around and screw with people's heads.

Their profiles are the biggest lies ever put forth - why - because they can do it and no one would really know the difference unless they met them.

I think that if you are truly here for the purpose of finding a partner that matches you - telling the truth is the only way to go - and when you find the liar - you find the truth!!!!
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