SimplePleasure Forum Posts (20)

RE: Little white lies and your match

Personally, think that ALOT of people think they are on here to get dates and meet people and possibily find the right one, but all in all they are really just here to mess around and screw with people's heads.

Their profiles are the biggest lies ever put forth - why - because they can do it and no one would really know the difference unless they met them.

I think that if you are truly here for the purpose of finding a partner that matches you - telling the truth is the only way to go - and when you find the liar - you find the truth!!!!

RE: How would you feel if....

Usually a court order means something!!!
Not sure what your situation is and frankly I don't really care but.........if these "things" were of any worth to you, maybe youshould of taken them with you when you left or she threw you out- whichever it was.

I'm sure he doesn't mind one bit!!
Sorry to hear it was so rough for you!

Things that make you HMMMMM!!!

I thought I would share this with everyone,

Enjoy!!!!


A well-known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20.00 bill. In the room of 200, he asked,

"Who would like this $20 bill?"


Hands started going up.

He said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this.

He proceeded to crumple up the $20 dollar bill.

He then asked, "Who still wants it?"

Still the hands were up in the air.

Well, he replied, "What if I do this?"

And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe.

He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty.

"Now, who still wants it?"

Still the hands went into the air.

My friends, we have all learned a very valuable lesson.

No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value.

It was still worth $20.

Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way.

We feel as though we are worthless.

But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value.

Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are still priceless to those who DO LOVE you.

The worth of our lives comes not in what we do or who we know, but by WHO WE ARE

You are special- Don't EVER forget it."

If you do not pass this on, you may never know the lives it touches, the hurting hearts it speaks to, or the hope that it can bring.

Count your blessings, not your problems.

And remember: amateurs built the ark . Professionals built the Titanic.

If God brings you to it - He will bring you through it.

Your idea of a good relationship.....

Thank you Jim,

That was my point of the threads but obviously some people are just not ready to face their own realities and I guess that could explain why they are searching.....

Sad but true!!

Anyhow - thanks for the nice comment, it was intended for that purpose.

Your idea of a good relationship.....

The way I see LOVE.........


If you have RESPECT for each other as individuals in all your your doings

If you TRUST one another with your words and your actions and you decisions and

You COMMUNICATE about everything inyour daily doings..........

Do you not think that LOVE is automatic???

I do!!!!

It takes 2 to tango

The reason they do that is because it takes away from themselves.

The more you blame - the less you have to concentrate on your own wrongs

RE: How would you feel if....

I dont think it would bother me!!!

I mean if they wore it and constantly talked or referred to the other person, then maybe I would tell them to go be with that person but then again, if that person has been in their life for a VERY long period of time, it only makes sense that some of the subjects would include this other person.

But anyhow - I dont think it would bother me!!

RE: What do you APPRECIATE about you?

I appreciate my sense of self
My strength that I never knew I had
My faithfull attitude in a relationship
My #1 fan support to my partner (when I have one)

I appreciate that I am ME!!!!!

RE: Who loves u the most ............ ????

I would have to say............

My kids............they love me most

I love my sense of self respect and the woman I have become since being on my own!

It takes 2 to tango

Yes, because it takes 2 to make it and 2 to break it!!

We must be able to look at ourselves and face our wrongs, rather than sit and blame!!!

Again just my 2 cents

RE: if you could be anywhere in the world tonite

I would be in Greece.............

RE: why is it when a man wants to find a woman to be faithful with all he finds is sl#ts

Well I really hate to be so blunt, but maybe your performance is not the best??

I know that sounds cruel but if you say that all the women you date are cheating on you, then maybe you are the problem????

Just a suggestion!! And my opinionated 2 cents!!!

Your idea of a good relationship.....

Yes I have always said I wanted a man to stand NEXT to be - not in front or behind me!!!

It takes 2 to tango

Now most of us are obviously single for all different reasons!!

I want to know if any of you have ever looked in the mirror and faced your own realities over what type of person you are.

Not only as an individual but as a partner.

What do you think you could of done differently to salvage a good relationship?

What part of the blame are you holding and is that chaging your view on a possible future relationship?

Your idea of a good relationship.....

Ok Everyone,

I am very much assuming that we have all been in a good relationship at some point in our lives.

Now thinking back to that relationship ,what made it good?

I have a fundamental belief in what consists of a good relationship and I sum it up in 3 words.

RESPECT
TRUST
COMMUNICATION

Anyone????

RE: Would you relocate to be with the right person?

It has to be the "RIGHT" person!!

Yes I would, but I have to take alot of factors into account........
My kids for one
My job

And it really depends on how far I would have to go.......

Like now - I am falling for this GORGEOUS SWEET MAN from Greece.

Would I relocate there? Hmmmmmmmmm

Really depends on just how long we have been talking - how many times we have met and spend time together and just what kind of a life I would have by the sea and the ocean and the hot weather.......OMG

I'm going to Greece!!!!!

RE: Do Gals Actually Read Profiles or Do They Just Look At The Photos???

If the pic interests me - I read the profile. Sometimes I am bored and open profiles and just read because I have nothing else to do.

So YES - I do read it if I am interested!

RE: What do Women think of younger men ...?

Yes you are correct, but how many younger men should I date before I make my mind up??

The first was a bad one so I may as well stay in my age category to avoid the trouble.

Men in my age group have experience and know what they are doing.

RE: Name a Song that helped you through Bad Times...

I will survive

Gloria Gayner

RE: Is everyone out there in CS Land happy where you are at this moment?

I'm very happy with my life.

I'm independent, love my job, and very proud of my efforts and experiences.

I just know what type of person I am and know what I want in life and that does include someone I can connect with.

I am complete alone, but sharing is hard when there is only yourself to share with.

You know what I mean? I want someone that can share my life with, someone that can be there for the good, the bad and the undecided.
Would be awesome to meet someone that can walk next to me and be proud of what he has.
And VISA VERSA