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May 7, 2007 11:50 AM CST How would you feel if....
antcus
antcusantcusSt Paul's Bay, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 948 Posts
The girlfiiend you are dating comes day in, day out, wearing the same bracelet, and one day she admits casually to you that it was a present from her ex boyfriend,
or for the women, if your boyfriend wears regularly, an expensive watch, which he openly admits was a present from his ex girlfriend?
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May 7, 2007 11:55 AM CST How would you feel if....
Geordie2007
Geordie2007Geordie2007Newcastle, Tyne and Wear, England UK1 Threads 28 Posts
I'd think she liked that item of jewellry ?
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May 7, 2007 12:02 PM CST How would you feel if....
pandie
pandiepandienorth central, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 112 Posts
thumbs up
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May 7, 2007 12:15 PM CST How would you feel if....
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Yeah!! wave
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May 7, 2007 12:43 PM CST How would you feel if....
busdriver
busdriverbusdriverLagos, Faro Portugal7 Threads 740 Posts
Hi dandy. hug kiss

Hoestly would not bother me. hug kiss
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May 7, 2007 12:52 PM CST How would you feel if....
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Hi ya Busdriver! Good to see ya, matey.........
Are you well? wave In sunny Portugal? Who wouldn't be!
(sorry for the hijack!).
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May 7, 2007 1:01 PM CST How would you feel if....
loves2steppin
loves2steppinloves2steppinConcord, New Hampshire USA20 Threads 1,729 Posts
Would not bother me.
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May 7, 2007 1:03 PM CST How would you feel if....
cancunense
cancunensecancunensecancun, Quintana Roo Mexico9 Threads 211 Posts
I would tell him....." wowwwwwwwwwwww ! what a beautiful jewel......can I have it?????rolling on the floor laughing
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May 7, 2007 1:05 PM CST How would you feel if....
AngelusGothika
AngelusGothikaAngelusGothikaIndianapolis, Indiana USA7 Posts
having been on both sides of your question I decided long ago that jewelry is jewelry, no matter the source. and if its something she likes well enough to wear all the time perhaps you could use that item to get a detailed idea of what she likes and buy her a new piece from you if it bothers you.
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May 7, 2007 1:08 PM CST How would you feel if....
TrueNorthMan7
TrueNorthMan7TrueNorthMan7Barrie, Canada34 Threads 1,096 Posts
Way to go, kid.

Parlay this question into how to get him to buy her more.

Women. Can't live with them, can't.....(fill in the blank)
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May 7, 2007 1:16 PM CST How would you feel if....
AngelusGothika
AngelusGothikaAngelusGothikaIndianapolis, Indiana USA7 Posts
Notice I said 'IF' it bothered him. I was trying to be constructive. Thats where you offer ways to fix a problem rather than just making random pointless comments about other people.
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May 7, 2007 1:31 PM CST How would you feel if....
TrueNorthMan7
TrueNorthMan7TrueNorthMan7Barrie, Canada34 Threads 1,096 Posts
Dearest Gothic Angel.

What I said was neither random nor pointless. Well, maybe pointless in the sense of speaking to a female.

Yes, I did notice you say "if". I saw the point you were made.

Why did you get your knickers in a knot over mine?
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May 7, 2007 1:33 PM CST How would you feel if....
busdriver
busdriverbusdriverLagos, Faro Portugal7 Threads 740 Posts
I have a cash bag made for me by my ex, I use it on every job I go on. love
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May 7, 2007 1:40 PM CST How would you feel if....
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
I would feel like it was really none of my business. The gifts were given in a previous relationship. I'm not insecure enough to be at all that concerned with material items that were given to someone in a prior relationship.
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May 7, 2007 2:51 PM CST How would you feel if....
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
i would hide it for suredrinking
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May 7, 2007 3:23 PM CST How would you feel if....
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
A little disappointed, but not threatened. Obviously she is with you,maybe you can make her a present that she will replace for this old bracelet from the ex boyfriend?
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May 8, 2007 8:36 PM CST How would you feel if....
SimplePleasure
SimplePleasureSimplePleasureToronto & Surroundings, Ontario Canada3 Threads 20 Posts
I dont think it would bother me!!!

I mean if they wore it and constantly talked or referred to the other person, then maybe I would tell them to go be with that person but then again, if that person has been in their life for a VERY long period of time, it only makes sense that some of the subjects would include this other person.

But anyhow - I dont think it would bother me!!
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May 8, 2007 8:42 PM CST How would you feel if....
Michael_Feir
Michael_FeirMichael_FeirMississauga, Ontario Canada13 Posts
I don't have a problem with that. There are plenty of other things to buy as gifts. In fact, keeping gifts from failed relationships is I think a sign of prudence and good sense. Any relationship worth having should not be prone to such things causing grief.
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May 8, 2007 8:45 PM CST How would you feel if....
kieyotie
kieyotiekieyotieSan Antonio, Texas USA23 Threads 615 Posts
Some nitwit is living in a house, driving a truck, and using everything I bought and my ex-wife managed to get court ordered to her. They have everything I owned I worked hard to be able to obtain, and still want more.

He doesn't seem to mind one bit.
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May 8, 2007 9:05 PM CST How would you feel if....
LonelyInBC31
LonelyInBC31LonelyInBC31Battle Creek, Michigan USA199 Threads 1 Polls 2,760 Posts
I wouldnt care....afterall, it was a gift...it shouldnt matter who it came from to the other person!!
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