Your thoughts on a woman that use bad language all the time (21)
I think it sucks,, the ones dishing all that junk out of their mouths,, there's issues there of some sort,, it should be corrected,, no one wants to listen to that junk
I think this thread is long overdue. It's a good point you make and I can only add my opinion. I sometimes go over the top with bad language but never when there are kids around. I hate it when I hear young parents swearing at their kids or even in front of them. It's about respect.
You mention women and that's a good point. I don't mind the odd "F" bomb in the right company. Not "Do you want some 'f'ing fries with that"
Just think about who is going to hear what you're saying and respect those people.
You mention women and that's a good point. I don't mind the odd "F" bomb in the right company. Not "Do you want some 'f'ing fries with that"
Just think about who is going to hear what you're saying and respect those people.
I agree Murray but what about on this site. I mean is it a turn off when you have to read someones bad language all the time? Do just try to ignore and come to our own conclussions on why the need is there for someone to do that.
I would have to think that there is some kind of insecurity with the person.
I would have to think that there is some kind of insecurity with the person.
doesn't mean they're insecure ...
Myself.. I love going to stand up comedy acts.. and if u go to those.. then your in for some bad language for sure..
and I like to think that My life Im on stage.. doing a comedy act ... so therefore.. I HAVEEEEEEE to use the language too.. its just a NEED to do thing.
Myself.. I love going to stand up comedy acts.. and if u go to those.. then your in for some bad language for sure..
and I like to think that My life Im on stage.. doing a comedy act ... so therefore.. I HAVEEEEEEE to use the language too.. its just a NEED to do thing.
am thinking major issues
The fact that you think that it is entertainment is your choice. I for one don't think so and shows lack of respect for those around and for the one typing the words.
Yes I will agree that this is a adult site, and since it is a adult site we should act as adults.
The questions I asked you did not answer. So read again if you wish to response and would appreciate your opinion.
Yes I will agree that this is a adult site, and since it is a adult site we should act as adults.
The questions I asked you did not answer. So read again if you wish to response and would appreciate your opinion.
I agree Gary but don't you think that if it is written all the time then that is how they talk on a regular basis?
I guess I just don't understand the need to talk like that.
And thanks for your opinion in this matter Gary.
I guess I just don't understand the need to talk like that.
And thanks for your opinion in this matter Gary.
oh oh me bad...does this have anything to do with my rat's behind comment?? Honestly I am really well behaved.
I agree with the bad language.. I used to work with a girl whose every third word was the F bomb. Back then I never thought much about it but there are a few words that do not need to be used in multiples. I tolerate that one less now.
I don't think it has anything to do with insecurity, just learned behavior.
I agree with the bad language.. I used to work with a girl whose every third word was the F bomb. Back then I never thought much about it but there are a few words that do not need to be used in multiples. I tolerate that one less now.
I don't think it has anything to do with insecurity, just learned behavior.
l agree, fowl language has its place, maybe a factory where they just seem to talk that way. l myself dont swear and l find it offensive when every other word on here is that F bomb word...its somewhat of a turn off for me. l have learned to by pass all those words and ignore them. l really like this site and will keep coming back no matter what someone says or how they say it.
For better or worse, the F-word has been normalized into our culture.
Hardly anyone bats an eye over it use. That's the reality.
Hardly anyone bats an eye over it use. That's the reality.
Honestly and personaly. I find it disrespectful and disgusting no matter the gender of those who have to swear in every sentence that comes out of their mouths or profile etc...
Don't get me wrong. I am far from perfect and definatly am not a saint lol. I have said some not so nice words as well but I still respect the ones around me and keep it to a small minimum as well.
Again thats just me!
Don't get me wrong. I am far from perfect and definatly am not a saint lol. I have said some not so nice words as well but I still respect the ones around me and keep it to a small minimum as well.
Again thats just me!
...WTF....
...I don't like gutter mouths from women....maybe double standard but it just isn't attractive....what's next, horking???...KWIM...
...I don't like gutter mouths from women....maybe double standard but it just isn't attractive....what's next, horking???...KWIM...
i am not attracted to an abundance of swearing. It does bother me if there is a lot. But i dont mind a little swearing. In fact, sometimes the f word is just needed depending on the type of story or chat involved.
My thoughts on this? There's a time and a place for everything. For example, while I have used the 'f' word on occasion, I certainly have never used it in a business meeting or job interview or one of the boards I volunteer on. I also wouldn't use it here, where I don't know the people well. And I certainly don't use it in front of my son, even though he's 22 and has used it and heard it a few times himself. That, in my mind is just courtesy, good practice, whatever one wants to call it.
And while this is an adult website, it does have standards that are set and those joining do so with that understanding of what can or can't be expected. Yes, I'm well past adulthood, but I don't expect to log on and find a bunch of naked pictures (even if there are a few I'd like to see!!).
When it's used in a post where it has no relevance or true value as a verb or adjective, then I can't imagine anyone valuing its use, except for the poster's own gratuitous purposes.
Just my two cents!
And while this is an adult website, it does have standards that are set and those joining do so with that understanding of what can or can't be expected. Yes, I'm well past adulthood, but I don't expect to log on and find a bunch of naked pictures (even if there are a few I'd like to see!!).
When it's used in a post where it has no relevance or true value as a verb or adjective, then I can't imagine anyone valuing its use, except for the poster's own gratuitous purposes.
Just my two cents!
The great thing about reading peoples comments is the fact that you don't have to. You know who the repeat offenders are so just don't read their posts.
As you can see I'm not an offender of that type so pay special attention to my words people, they're gold.
As you can see I'm not an offender of that type so pay special attention to my words people, they're gold.
I think in a whole, values have changed towards foul language. I think now for various reasons, we have become desensitized to it in some ways. But for an answer, so I don't sound like a politician lol. One has to look at it in context, and where its done. If someone has respect for others and are adults, they will know when its appropriate and when not. Keep in mind I say both, age does not always bring wisdom. I think its fine to a point used sparely, and if over used shows the person just lacks communication skills.
I try not to cuss but sometimes we can't help it. there is one girl at work she swears all the time and especially in front of customers (she has been called to the office regarding this) I have a rule not to use bad language in front of kids especially no one uses those words around my grandchidren....til this day either of my kids who are 28 and 22 don't even say any swear words around me
to me its respect and I have raised my kids alone with no help from anyone
to me its respect and I have raised my kids alone with no help from anyone
Well this is understandable..
but She means on the site.. and I say well its just a site..
I think the way we speak on here is obviously different from the way you talk in person ..
Some people are more open on line..
Some people can express themselves better because they have time to think about what they're saying
Some People rather be the fun corky person they have to hide in person.
there could be many reasons a person is different on line then in Person ..
But .. I think that swearing is okay if your not using it against someone.. like calling someone a name or what not.. I have been guilty of both Im sure.. But.. I never said I was right.,
but She means on the site.. and I say well its just a site..
I think the way we speak on here is obviously different from the way you talk in person ..
Some people are more open on line..
Some people can express themselves better because they have time to think about what they're saying
Some People rather be the fun corky person they have to hide in person.
there could be many reasons a person is different on line then in Person ..
But .. I think that swearing is okay if your not using it against someone.. like calling someone a name or what not.. I have been guilty of both Im sure.. But.. I never said I was right.,
I, for one, work in the construction industry and every other word that comes out of their mouths here starts with the "f"..and we're mot talking Fudge, or Fickle......straight out F&(*&!!!! I also hear the C word (you all know what that is) and that SPINS me......
I don't like it but let's face it, EVERYBODY uses that word.....in different extremes.......sadness (awww F it!), happy (f(*&! ), DISAPPOINTED (FOR F SAKES) AND ALL other types of measures
as for on this site, yes, it does bother me but in hindsight, I use the F word when I am excited or amungst friends that we CAN speak to like that.........
when I am conducting myself with either business clients or personnel at work, I am all proper.........also, when there are children around.......and with relatives and perfect strangers.......
I do have a "trucker mouth" and I am the first to admit it but there is always a place and a time for it......
it's like suntan oil.....use it sparangly (sp?) but not too often or else you are gonna get burned! (in every sense of the word)
just my two cents and am not sure if I truly answered your post twingles......
peace out.......
I don't like it but let's face it, EVERYBODY uses that word.....in different extremes.......sadness (awww F it!), happy (f(*&! ), DISAPPOINTED (FOR F SAKES) AND ALL other types of measures
as for on this site, yes, it does bother me but in hindsight, I use the F word when I am excited or amungst friends that we CAN speak to like that.........
when I am conducting myself with either business clients or personnel at work, I am all proper.........also, when there are children around.......and with relatives and perfect strangers.......
I do have a "trucker mouth" and I am the first to admit it but there is always a place and a time for it......
it's like suntan oil.....use it sparangly (sp?) but not too often or else you are gonna get burned! (in every sense of the word)
just my two cents and am not sure if I truly answered your post twingles......
peace out.......
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You know you can talk to our grandparents and at times yes maybe even our parents. Years ago it was very unlady like to use bad language. Now yes I can see and will be the first to admit that words come out of my mouth at times. But not in pretty much everything I have to say.
So how do you feel about that on this site and yes I know everyone is different. But am interested to see how others feel about this situation when it comes to looking for someone to add to our lives, be it a partner or a friend.
Are we attracted to this? Does it bother you? Is it something that just turns you off and frustrates you?
It used to be unacceptable to many but has seemed to be accetped now. But why?