southernchickwouldn't you like to know :), Oklahoma USA5 Threads141 Posts
southernchickOPwouldn't you like to know :), Oklahoma USA141 posts
If you meet someone online would you would meet them in person or would you rather meet someone off line ?Also explain your answer. For me it depends where it would lead .
I actually think it's so much better to meet them online ( saying this means that each party is truly representing who they really are and what they truly want). You get to know the person from the inside out instead of the other way around. Think of all the people you pass up on a daily basis that you never take the time to get to know just because "they're not my type". But if you really knew them intimately, they would really turn your crank and you could definitely fall in love with them. This gives you a chance to overlook the exterior a little bit and get to know the real person. I think it's a great opportunity and it really does work.
I would meet someone in person I met online if they seemed (relatively) sane in our conversations beforehand. After all, you may make some good friends, doesn't have to be on the basis of a relationship.. I think it is sometimes difficult to meet people face to face unless you knew them via work or mutual friends. I am no longer a teenager so don't go for all that chat up line in bars stuff nowadays.
Unfortunately I have to read between the lines and hope i have the gyst of the conversation.
Yes meet them. But if it is a long distance thing then see if you can do a joint web Cam thing where you can view each other one on one at the same time. None of this if you let me see u I let u see me. If they make excues end transmission.
If local make it neutral and public; and relax and enjoy.
I'd most definitely would rather meet'em online first...just to get a feel for 'em and then if all seemed well...then,sure I'd go for the face to face.
Hmm..i would much prefer to meet someone offline..not really a online person...but IF i do meet someone e.g. frens or whoever, and if it's nice n worth meeting up, i would..HAHAHAHAHHAHA do i sound crude? am not...trust me...but the thought of meeting someone online n then offline, it's weird...i dunno...im still ina dilemma
Much rather meet them off line. I have had so many bad experiences meeting men who weren't as they portrayed themselves to be online that I vowed never to do it again.
But now I have met someone who seems to be genuine and sweet and NORMAL. So if I give this one more shot, does it make me desperate or stupid or just a hopeful romantic?
Assets~~it definetely doesn't make you stupid or desperate, but , possibly romantic. Most of all....it makes you human...and normal! I wish you two the best!!!!!
sweetmanfouryouromford, Greater London, England UK125 posts
Meet Somebody on LINE ?? well I'd rather GET to KNOW somebody on line, to a degree first, talk about stuff, ourselves, what makes us tick etc etc, and then meet them in person AFTER !! Which is better than meeting somebody in the flesh first and then spending the rest of your life on a darn computer-lol
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