married and be with some else ( Archived) (24)

May 7, 2007 2:12 PM CST married and be with some else
ireland12345
ireland12345ireland12345mullingar, Westmeath Ireland70 Threads 188 Posts
i think its wrong that a guy or a women would cheat on they partners and ruin they family and they kids life why get married in the first place
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May 7, 2007 2:12 PM CST married and be with some else
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
cuz people just suck... there ignorent.....
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May 7, 2007 2:16 PM CST married and be with some else
ireland12345
ireland12345ireland12345mullingar, Westmeath Ireland70 Threads 188 Posts
im single so i had onenightstands but never cheat on my girfiends so i just stay single
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May 7, 2007 2:16 PM CST married and be with some else
pandie
pandiepandienorth central, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 112 Posts
i always believed what they say about cheaters... if they'll do it with, you they'll do it to you.

some people have no business being married. if it was as hard to get married as it is to get divorced, i think a lot of people would be more serious about the commitment before they do it.
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May 7, 2007 2:17 PM CST married and be with some else
royalnavy
royalnavyroyalnavyportsmouth, Hampshire, England UK7 Threads 153 Posts
whats the point in getting married if you wanna be with someone else, i thought the point in the whole marrige thing is, that you wanna spend the rest of your life with that person....i know when i do, il be with that person for life, and never even think of about it!its just ashame we all dont think like this...male and female
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May 7, 2007 2:19 PM CST married and be with some else
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
Yeah same here.. i've been cheated on and its not a good feeling so i would neva do it to anyone else... thats why i try to date no strings attached you no im kinda scared to settle down the guy i was with we were together for 2 years i thought he was the one.. but i guess not... so i've limited my self to flings since then
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May 7, 2007 2:21 PM CST married and be with some else
ireland12345
ireland12345ireland12345mullingar, Westmeath Ireland70 Threads 188 Posts
i like been single because i like to have fun but if i meet the right women i never cheat angel
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May 7, 2007 2:24 PM CST married and be with some else
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
yeah same here its probably bad that i've had more partners since the break up then before it but i guess i needed it to help my self-esteem or something or im just making excuses and i was lonelly
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May 7, 2007 2:26 PM CST married and be with some else
royalnavy
royalnavyroyalnavyportsmouth, Hampshire, England UK7 Threads 153 Posts
i was with a girl for 20 months, and just after 9/11 my ship had to deploy at short notice to afghanistan, for obvious reasons! which i had no problem with... but the girl at the time did, and to cut a long story short, i got a dear john in the post, finnishing wasnt the crap part, but cause she had met someone else. so im always a bit...dodghy, im just enjoyng my self, ive had relationships since then!! but nothing to serious, i just need a girl who understands my job
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May 7, 2007 2:29 PM CST married and be with some else
quiescent
quiescentquiescentsomewhere, USA19 Threads 1,199 Posts
Want respect
Treat people with respect
choose wisely
Notice behaviors
Feels right, stay with it.

rose
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May 7, 2007 2:33 PM CST married and be with some else
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
I'd imagine that it would be hard as hell for the both of you. Her not hearing from you not knowing if your ok it can get incrediblly stressful but if she really loved you and wanted to be with you it wouldn't matter suck it up or get out i'd say... and then she'd probably say something stupid like "you dont really love me if your leaving" <type of bull> it must suck im getting stressed out just talking about it
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May 7, 2007 2:44 PM CST married and be with some else
royalnavy
royalnavyroyalnavyportsmouth, Hampshire, England UK7 Threads 153 Posts
bless ya, it does suck but that wasnt the reasons, i was phoneing every night, e-mailing, it wasnt as if i was out partying now was it!!!ha ha, all i can say is her loss, im not being big headed, but im a nice genuine guy, and i couldnt have been any nicer to her, she got spoiled. but if she dont want that then, im happy with her choice now, because im happy!
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May 7, 2007 2:56 PM CST married and be with some else
royalnavy
royalnavyroyalnavyportsmouth, Hampshire, England UK7 Threads 153 Posts
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May 7, 2007 3:02 PM CST married and be with some else
welshboy007
welshboy007welshboy007newport, UK10 Threads 1,182 Posts
ive never understood why people cheat, if they dont like the person they are with enough that they cheat then why get with them in the first placeconfused

ive had women cheat on me and its not nice, i would never cheat on the person i was with, ever!
if im with somone then its because i like her alot, so i wouldnt want to be with anyone else.

cheating is bang out of order!
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May 7, 2007 3:42 PM CST married and be with some else
twinkles1994
twinkles1994twinkles1994Vancouver, Washington USA84 Threads 2,258 Posts
I stuck to my vows while married thank you very much! He didn't of course, but hey two wrongs wouldn't have made a right!
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May 7, 2007 5:21 PM CST married and be with some else
erinshauna
erinshaunaerinshaunalondon, Greater London, England UK14 Threads 140 Posts
I guess when people decide to get married it is not in their thoughts to cheat.Marriages go wrong for all kinds of reasons and if a person feels unloved in their marriage they look elsewhere to fullfill their needs.Many years ago it was not so easy to get out of a marriage and often the couple stayed together "for the sake of the children"but this often led to very unhappy children and even more misery.It is never so easy for either person to walk away from a life built up together but as the old saying goes,,,,,,,,,"If you want to know me,come live with me"we never know what goes on behind closed doors"Cheating on your partner will never solve the problemn but often the bigger picture can tell a very sad story. Just my view wave
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May 7, 2007 7:30 PM CST married and be with some else
quiescent
quiescentquiescentsomewhere, USA19 Threads 1,199 Posts
OOOPS !!

I don't believe AT ALL that it's right to be with a married person. Yikes

Read it wrong. uh oh
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May 7, 2007 8:12 PM CST married and be with some else
Raynew
RaynewRaynewConcord, North Carolina USA99 Threads 2,400 Posts
I know what it's like to be cheated on and wouldn't do that to whoever I'm with, it totally sucks. A woman I was seeing several years ago claimed she was committed to our relationship but I found I wasn't the only one she was "committed" to.

When I commit myself to someone, it is to that person only. I have had opportunities during my first and only marriage but passed them by.
My parents were married for 40 years, till death do us part, which is how it ended. This is the type of marriage I want.

My ex (a Catholic) divorced me because she couldn't deal with my having a heart problem. She gave me the boot several months after I had a triple by-pass 12 years ago
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May 7, 2007 9:38 PM CST married and be with some else
MarkDwayne
MarkDwayneMarkDwayneDoha, Qatar225 Posts
I am not sure what the official ratio of men cheaters/female cheaters is in the USA anyway, but I'd bet on the former to be higher number!

Many will cheat only if they think they can get away with it...

Weak minds lack discipline!

Some folks are ruled by sheer hormones at seems!

But,I agree, ....don't get married if you can't keep your proverbial pants on!
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May 12, 2007 5:46 PM CST married and be with some else
walla509guy
walla509guywalla509guyCollege Place, USA2 Threads 4 Posts
scold cept if a woman wants power..or a man wants power,,,check out hillarry and slick willie i guess thats not cheating,,thats a "open marraige" cause they both go their own separate ways....and still married,,,i have a wife before she died,,we supported ourselves but if i want another woman i can and if she wants another man so its NOT cheating,,,thats the way it should be,,,why sneak around and bring home a disease...very mad
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