Say SOMETHING!!!...An open letter (38)
It never has been said better and more clear -
I agree and understand all. ..
on the other hand its tricky < > because there are realy lovable, fantasitic, intelligent niceguys out there, who will maybe have a problem - to only start first contact - in that moment shy perhaps - trying to make you feel easy and not send you long mails for first contacts, they dont know what you are reffering too, they dont have an idea what sort of Scam is coming to our mailboxes, and they perhaps never imagined we get this sort of mails .. because its only those you are reffering to right now ... right??? .. there are many others - worth replying and making friendship - even without purpose or being "over picky"
I agree and understand all. ..
on the other hand its tricky < > because there are realy lovable, fantasitic, intelligent niceguys out there, who will maybe have a problem - to only start first contact - in that moment shy perhaps - trying to make you feel easy and not send you long mails for first contacts, they dont know what you are reffering too, they dont have an idea what sort of Scam is coming to our mailboxes, and they perhaps never imagined we get this sort of mails .. because its only those you are reffering to right now ... right??? .. there are many others - worth replying and making friendship - even without purpose or being "over picky"
I love it! Bravo! Fortissimo! For this day, Age and the run-of the mill come-ons made to a woman, its perfect! Picky one, I applaud you and your attitude. Ever think that perhaps you should have your own radio-talk show..?
From a different perspective, I can understand highfy's comments about "first contact"; like the book and movie of the Star Trek series...establishing First Contact is like trying to deal with an alien for many..."women...they look like us, sort of, but they don't think like us...that's what makes them seem like aliens...". It is a bit unnerving for most males...but that is what adds more spice to Life...like red-hot pepper sauce....%)
From a different perspective, I can understand highfy's comments about "first contact"; like the book and movie of the Star Trek series...establishing First Contact is like trying to deal with an alien for many..."women...they look like us, sort of, but they don't think like us...that's what makes them seem like aliens...". It is a bit unnerving for most males...but that is what adds more spice to Life...like red-hot pepper sauce....%)
Hi Picky!Sometimes first contact is so"incredible"for mind-game players!...I have received even "Family album" from highly intelligent? man,who then unexpectedly stop sent any e-mails
How funny!
Such "respect"to his own family members and friends has been not often met............
typo- should write -stop send/sorry/
High-Fidelity 
Okay lads, the lady has said IT ALL. Thanks PickyOne, for having the courage, taking the time, and the effort, to put into words EXACTLY what happens here! It used to be so nice, to see "mail" and "flowers"..... but you know what boys?.... its gotten Boring....because I see this pattern that gets repeated and repeated ad nauseum, most times, the guys even use the exact same words!
And in my profile....I say I WANT TO MEET A LOCAL PERSON.... and then I get emails from 5,000 miles away..... make sense? Unless the person is intending to re-locate in the near future, I wish he would^nt make this effort.
Oh, I guess its a form of flattery, an ego boost thing, for me? But for what reason? Why on earth would a 60 year old female, looking for a guy around her own age, attract youngsters in their 30`s?.... I got sons that age, thank you very much, and I not looking to be anybody`s new Mama.
Ohh God .. Life can be very amusing 
. I am not amused by the post .. but for that unique compulsion which made The Picky to want to respond .. Getting too exited too easily is not healthy ..Hi Picky one...
Just to frustrate you: ;)
BEGIN FRUSTRATING:
My email address is abcdefg@wussy.com, I find you really pretty, stunning, funny and smart. I have no opinion about anything though, so what I just said may change very quickly :P. I really find it difficult to be creative as well, so I am just repeating what other guys have told you and join the ever increasing crowd of admirers, maybe you pick me.
I am sure I can handle you well too. Had other women like you, who I could control, so much so that I will not even give you the chance to have an opinion about it..lol. I hope I am not being rude now.
To be honest now..I have even run out of what else to say....not normal...
END OF FRUSTRATING
Dont worry the right guy will someday come...in the meantime just take the piss of the rest.
Just to frustrate you: ;)
BEGIN FRUSTRATING:
My email address is abcdefg@wussy.com, I find you really pretty, stunning, funny and smart. I have no opinion about anything though, so what I just said may change very quickly :P. I really find it difficult to be creative as well, so I am just repeating what other guys have told you and join the ever increasing crowd of admirers, maybe you pick me.
I am sure I can handle you well too. Had other women like you, who I could control, so much so that I will not even give you the chance to have an opinion about it..lol. I hope I am not being rude now.
To be honest now..I have even run out of what else to say....not normal...
END OF FRUSTRATING
Dont worry the right guy will someday come...in the meantime just take the piss of the rest.
Well,good thing my boss doesn’t see what you’re saying here;he would just love it.He’s always hitting on me because of my big mouth and my “gift” of choosing the wrong battles.
BUT,in this particular case,as much as I respect your opinion,I don’t think I got “too excited too easily” and,even if you’re right,I’m content with the consequences.Since yesterday,I’ve received two lovely/intelligent messages,from a guy who happens to be one of my favourites and a single stupid one.
P.S. I almost felt your hand on my head,while you were whispering “How are you,dear?Playing nicely with that tiny brain of yours,having your “blond”moments?What’s with this unique compulsion you’re experiencing?” .
Go easy on me,would you!?!
BUT,in this particular case,as much as I respect your opinion,I don’t think I got “too excited too easily” and,even if you’re right,I’m content with the consequences.Since yesterday,I’ve received two lovely/intelligent messages,from a guy who happens to be one of my favourites and a single stupid one.
P.S. I almost felt your hand on my head
,while you were whispering “How are you,dear?Playing nicely with that tiny brain of yours,having your “blond”moments?What’s with this unique compulsion you’re experiencing?” .Go easy on me,would you!?!
I hope that it is all out of your system now . Being clever or not all of us must get respect and need to give it too . It would have been better if you had ignored or blocked the person whom was giving you a hard time . Think of all that time and energy which you spent being upset .. You could have spent all of that on being happy .
Often we can't help what is coming to us but , from then onwards it will be up to us if is going to go on or to be dropped ... I wished you had dropped it .. I like to see my friends happy .. Cheer up xxx
Often we can't help what is coming to us but , from then onwards it will be up to us if is going to go on or to be dropped ... I wished you had dropped it .. I like to see my friends happy .. Cheer up xxx
I told you they have no clue 
You do attract the eloquent types
the effort to dont attract those sorts is a quite useless effort after all, if you fight ignorance being a women and blond ..
... what other defence would be dignant.. ?
... what other defence would be dignant.. ?
That is humanity in action all over the world .. Ask a young female teacher working at a boys school or a young male teacher working at a girls school ... The experience is almost the same . Obviously they are attracted to you .. and may be they don't know quite what they want to say .. We need not to lose sleep for that . We have lots of friends here ..
YAMI, seems you are in agreeable mood tonight - what a comfort to your other outbursts of vengance, sometimes they seem to come as unexpected moods on generalizing and throughing then all into one pot -
perhaps - looking who might come out and give you a kiss as salvation and
or
and knock you on the head ...
perhaps - looking who might come out and give you a kiss as salvation and
or
and knock you on the head ...
I'm really interested in an example what women write in their mails.
The messages i get are different, means they sound more unique. Also i like to make the first contact, that's easier.
Do you know that you can edit from who you like to get messages? (location)
The messages i get are different, means they sound more unique. Also i like to make the first contact, that's easier.
Do you know that you can edit from who you like to get messages? (location)
Madam, if I may:
In your " edit profile " then "edit mail preferences" you can uncheck the zones from which you do NOT want to receive any communications. Just go click, click, clickty clickty, click, click and you get nek-nek-nekkid men from Western Europe only...if that's what you want that is.
In your " edit profile " then "edit mail preferences" you can uncheck the zones from which you do NOT want to receive any communications. Just go click, click, clickty clickty, click, click and you get nek-nek-nekkid men from Western Europe only...if that's what you want that is.
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1.I don't know you.Never saw you posting a thing,an idea.What in the world made you think that I would consider answering to something like "Give me your e-mail adress" or "Here's my e-mail adress" as a FIRST message???Have something to say?Say it here,that's why CS enabled the mailbox feature.
2.DON'T tell me how pretty I am...or smart...or funny.This may come as a shock to you,but I KNEW THAT and,anyway,someone before you AND before that someone AND before him AND so on and on,already said that to me.The point is,if it's not comming from the right person,at the right time,I could care less what men think about me.BE CREATIVE,for a change,USE YOUR BRAIN,God damn it!If your message is "You're stunning" and I reply "Not impressed...what else?",why do you say "Errmm...Nothing else...just wanted you to know that I like you.Tell me more about you" ?EXCUUUUUSE MEEEE!!!!I'm not here to entertain you!!!YOU have to tell me something about yourself,about the weather,about the Colorado potato bugs,about frying pans...whatever,something to make ME wanna talk to you.
3.FORGET about asking me to come visit you (and,oh!of course you'll cover all the expenses,you don't forget to mention that).Buying is the easiest thing to do,I can do that as well.You have to do more than that,smartass;you have to give me a good reason for wanting to see you and that's NOT gonna happen overnight,trust me!
4.I wrote in my profile "I'm looking for someone who can handle me".
DON'T,just DON'T tell me how sure you are you can do it.Let ME be the judge of that!This is not a contest "who can handle that picky one",nor a challenge.
5.DON'T say "you were rude to me"(or "impolite",don't remember exactly),"you've hurt my feelings".Here's a crazy thought:the reason I wrote in my profile that I'm not a nice or an easy-going person might be BECAUSE I'm not a nice person,especially to people I know nothing about.Suit me,for I can't help it!
OK,think I've covered it all.If any of you,ladies,have other complaints,let them know.Maybe,next time,YOU'll think twice before sending stupid messages.
P.S.Maybe I should start another thread with this,but here I go:
How come the guy I really like never writes me?
Kidding...or not.