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stitch2Bristol, UK8 Threads 47 Posts
Ok met lagonda everything was going well and then lies started to come out, what a surprise he is married! yep and to top it off other site plenty of fish to which he logged into at mine there is another woman there, whome by the way he said is agony aunt! yeah rite! well we will find out as emailed her to ask whats going on, why do people lie there gona get caught out i just dont understand, aghhhhhhhhhh 
What would you do?? any ideas here?Get over him love, he ain't worth it.
Just start again and don't dwell on "what could of been", cos it ain't ever going to happen is it!
Just start again and don't dwell on "what could of been", cos it ain't ever going to happen is it!
I wouldn't waste my time on him. Some people are just compulsive liar's, don't let one idiot put you of.
Sorry it didn't work out. Hang in there.
Sorry it didn't work out. Hang in there.
Harsh but true words 
Sorry you have been put through this, Stitch.
I have to agree with the others, move on and forget him
I'd have been off at the first mention of being married
I have to agree with the others, move on and forget him
I'd have been off at the first mention of being married
Yep, doesn't surprise me at all your story. Myself and other CS members have shared similar stories on other threads on here such as "The Web Experience" and "Do long distance relationships work".
In fact me and Elegantlady from this site are thinking of forming a support group for all the duped females on here! If I were you I'd rise above it all, kick him into touch, ignore him and find yourself one that isn't a compulsive liar which is hard as the majority of men lie. But hey, this is only my opinion so you must do whats best, it's your life at end of the day.
Out of curiosity, is he claiming hes unhappily married and wants to leave or do you get the feeling he's married and just wants a fling?
In fact me and Elegantlady from this site are thinking of forming a support group for all the duped females on here! If I were you I'd rise above it all, kick him into touch, ignore him and find yourself one that isn't a compulsive liar which is hard as the majority of men lie. But hey, this is only my opinion so you must do whats best, it's your life at end of the day.
Out of curiosity, is he claiming hes unhappily married and wants to leave or do you get the feeling he's married and just wants a fling?
hi,ive noticed u have'nt told them that the emails you read in plenty of fish state that i told her i have someone and it was you stitch.......................
oh and you knew i was married before we started chatting and before i came down there
Right hold on a sec! You did say you was getting a divorce and had put in for one carl. But it was a lie remember! listen pps im waiting for an email from this other woman on plenty of fish and hopefully everything will be ok and we can sort this out.
after all he is still at mine and not running through the door coz if he is chatting up other females on pof then im sure he'd have left by now
after all he is still at mine and not running through the door coz if he is chatting up other females on pof then im sure he'd have left by now
He claimed he had put in for a divorce and it was going through, said he was abused by her really, and yeah she knows about me, I wana belive what he tells me after all you cant have a relatioship if you dont have trust.. Just waiting for that woman to respond then ill know for sure!
Hey come on guys, I think too much private information is being made public, this isn't for our eyes, jmo
I can't understand how you appear to be more concerned about the other woman he talks to on another site than his wife. If it was me I'd be wanting to check out if what he says about his wife and putting in for a divorce is true, especially if children are involved, just hope you get this all clarified one way or the other..
Why the hell did you start this bloody inane thread in the first place then ???
I feel you both sholdn't air your dirty laundry in public - so to speak. Because I think all you have accomplished right now is a public display of yourselves and made not only made him look a div, but yourself also.
Maybe have a lil respect and some dignity and keep it private! unless you are the type, whom likes to row in public for the attention??
Just my two pence worth and you did ask for advice!!!
I feel you both sholdn't air your dirty laundry in public - so to speak. Because I think all you have accomplished right now is a public display of yourselves and made not only made him look a div, but yourself also.
Maybe have a lil respect and some dignity and keep it private! unless you are the type, whom likes to row in public for the attention??
Just my two pence worth and you did ask for advice!!!
Maybe he is married but separated to be divorced??
If he is married,no sign on separation and/or divorce then tell him where to get off
If he is married,no sign on separation and/or divorce then tell him where to get off
Erm...after reading the other mails by you 2 i think ur both a bit dumb for airing ur will it/won't it be the end of the saga!
You just showed him and yourself up in public,i doubt now that he'll wanna be with you,or that it will last long if you both embark on a relationship!
Read and learn peeps!
You just showed him and yourself up in public,i doubt now that he'll wanna be with you,or that it will last long if you both embark on a relationship!
Read and learn peeps!
I agree. If I wanted this kinda crap I would stay home during the day and watch Jeremy bloody kyle!! lol
There's two sides, to every argument, I guess.
It is said, once a liar, always a liar,
Equally, he could be telling the truth.
A simple bit of advice really, without trust, there IS no relationship.
Equally, he could be genuine, in the fact that he's put in for divorce.
What'd be the point in him joinging a dating site, in order to cheat, when he could just as easily find someone where he lives.
It is said, once a liar, always a liar,
Equally, he could be telling the truth.
A simple bit of advice really, without trust, there IS no relationship.
Equally, he could be genuine, in the fact that he's put in for divorce.
What'd be the point in him joinging a dating site, in order to cheat, when he could just as easily find someone where he lives.
Ok, guess I came in on the tale end of this post, I didn't realise there was a whole line of posts before mine. My initial advice was to women who have dated men and eventually found out they were married. I do feel that this forum is not suitable for the kind of conflict that is going on between the intial poster and her counterpart. I don't mind supporting anyone and if I can give advice, always willing but you two need to work it out outside this medium.
i am sorry that this has happened, but please dont think everyone on thi site is like that, cause there really is some nice and genuine guys out there, friends, something else, youl never know. but be rest assured, there is nice guys here who are genuine.
jon
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