I may once in awhile input a thought or two to these threads but generally I have very little activity on this site. I do not get flowers or mail and I would really like to have my profile critiqued. A friend of mine many many years ago said you can't get fish unless you have the right bait. I really want to know as I don't play games and changing bait seems like a game to me. Opinions anyone????
Hi And Welcome to the forums! I was feeling the same when I first joined CS. I have learned that you have to get into the forums more, let people know who you are and what you are about by expressing your thoughts and opinions more. Then... send flowers and emails. You have to send to receive! Don't change anything about the way you are. Just put yourself out there to be caught! Good luck and again.. Welcome to the forums!
Thank you Carla. I am who I am. I send flowers and email but they don't get answered so I just wondered what I was doing wrong. I really enjoy reading all these threads so maybe I will jump in here more
Thank you. I thought so too but then started thinking maybe men aren't looking for sincere and honest. I really don't date and don't know what men my age want anymore.
Keep your chin up and jump on in! The more the guys get to know you, the more flowers and mail you will receive. I was very slow to start on here. I finally changed some of my pictures around and Wham! I get flowered and mailed daily on here. I've met alot of great people on here. Just keep it up and don't give up!
Texas girls are always the greatest (lived in Texas 30 years before moving to Memphis )
Thanks for the bouquet and very nice encouraging words.
I have received some mails now also critiquing my profile. Makes me look at myself in a different way. I wanted to know who others were seeing me and I appreciate all the advice and (so far) postive help I shall take it all to heart and give it a good ponder
there are a lot of great people in the forums, come in and hang out and flowers will be flowing, you look like a great and fun lady show us what ya got
I just want to say thank you to CS. I have received more mail and flowers today than I ever imagined possible. You have welcomed me and made me feel special. In time to come I hope to get to know each of you better and hope that this is the start to some lasting friendships. THANK YOU EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU. I must go now but will be back. And for the very kind gentleman in Canada (you know who you are) this one is for you... ELVIS has left the building.
First of all, i say very the next thing is hope u enjoy ur stay in here, coz u will see that there is a big fat great friendship in here and we enjoy talking to each other, I ve met many friends on CS, and i am so very sure that u will have many friends on here too, for instance i am ur friend, and so are the other thread posters... Send flowers and mails to receive them back and when u view ppl's profiles send some mails to let them know what u think...
Before i was attending the forums, i received tons of mails and pictures and after i started i have doubled it up, so it didnt change me to attend the forums or not...
Just Kidding!!!!
I believe and i am sure that the more u r in forums, the more u will be known by people and make some friends... Good Luck in ur search hon and like "Carla" says keep your chin up and smile...
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