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May 31, 2007 3:49 PM CST Is it normal ...
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
not to want to get remarried again? I was married for 26 yrs., been divorced for 6 yrs. I have a wonderful man in my life smitten love that I have been with/seeing for 3 yrs. but I do not want to remarry. sigh Sometimes it worries me...and then sometimes I think I want to marry and then I do not. I think I am confused...confused dunno crying sigh
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May 31, 2007 3:51 PM CST Is it normal ...
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK47 Threads 6,806 Posts
time will tell for you.....you would know if the time is right...or you just want things to stay as they are....as long as you are happy...just keep on as you are......ans see what the future holds in the future...keep today..because tomorrow may never come....wine
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May 31, 2007 3:51 PM CST Is it normal ...
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
yes its normal not to get marry again.....i am will not as i refuse to give up my widows penison for no man.....wink thats my running away money....lolrolling on the floor laughing
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May 31, 2007 3:52 PM CST Is it normal ...
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK47 Threads 6,806 Posts
scold ..trust you!!....laugh
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May 31, 2007 3:52 PM CST Is it normal ...
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
Hmmm...what is this word 'normal' you speak of? dunno



wink
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May 31, 2007 3:53 PM CST Is it normal ...
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
No just go with how you feel.

You don't have to be married to be a couple and be happy. Just do and live the way you feel happiest.
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May 31, 2007 3:54 PM CST Is it normal ...
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
Thank you, sweet man. I agree with you. No one is promised a tomorrow. hug
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May 31, 2007 3:54 PM CST Is it normal ...
lorraine
lorrainelorraineDublin, Ireland104 Threads 2,717 Posts
Me too. I never want to get married again and the funny part is, we had a good marriage. I know I will never ever get married again.
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May 31, 2007 3:55 PM CST Is it normal ...
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
Yes, that is true. Thank you. hug
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May 31, 2007 3:56 PM CST Is it normal ...
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
Thank you Lorraine. At least I know I am not the only woman that feels this way. sigh
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May 31, 2007 3:56 PM CST Is it normal ...
sunflora
sunflorasunfloraHuddersfield, West Yorkshire, England UK5 Threads 154 Posts
Nope... Won't get married again! Was wed for 12yr, once bitten twice shy! doh mumbling
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May 31, 2007 3:56 PM CST Is it normal ...
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK47 Threads 6,806 Posts
i think marriage is just a thing for once..and once only......id take my vows very seriously.....and try to live by them.....as best as i could..it takes work...hard work..!!...
why change it...if youre happy..keep it that way...if your partners just as happy....no problem.......wine
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May 31, 2007 3:56 PM CST Is it normal ...
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
laugh I am not sure...dunno wave
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May 31, 2007 3:58 PM CST Is it normal ...
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
I took my vows very seriously and when I married I intended for it to be a one time thing. But after 26 yrs., it went down the crapper. sigh
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May 31, 2007 3:59 PM CST Is it normal ...
lorraine
lorrainelorraineDublin, Ireland104 Threads 2,717 Posts
well if you are happy as things are then why change them. If it is not broke... an all that.
Good luck,whatever you dowave
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May 31, 2007 3:59 PM CST Is it normal ...
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
As a minister, I hold that the promise is sacred, but the licence is just a piece of paper. Being bonded to someone is something that God already sees. The courts can go begging as far as I'm concerned.

So, the question is, do you feel that bond? If not, then its not a good idea...


TET
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May 31, 2007 4:00 PM CST Is it normal ...
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK47 Threads 6,806 Posts
s**t happens...people drift apart sadly...the main thing is right now though......thats all that matters....im sure you have good memories...good luck......wine hi Andrea...wave
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May 31, 2007 4:04 PM CST Is it normal ...
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
Yeah....and it's all good. I have 2 wonderful kids that came from that union. So I would not change it. smile
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May 31, 2007 4:06 PM CST Is it normal ...
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
My ex had a car accident and he received a closed head injury. To be honest, he was never the same person after that. I guess thats what made it so awfully sad. He was not the man I married and became quite the opposite.
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May 31, 2007 4:06 PM CST Is it normal ...
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
wink It's all good.
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