My motto is,,what u wud,nt like done on urself,,don,t do to another,,and i think also if they do it once,,,they do it again!So better moving on,,,and in time maybe forgiving.
you right......, if you do it once...you will still doing.....in mexico we say "dog that eats sh**T wont stop to do it even his mouth is burn" I dont know if you get the idea.... i think is education, if you dont educate to ur kids with the value of the loyalty....
Good point, if the neighborhood and family and co-wokers know that you tolerate or forgive such an act... sorta like leaving the bank vault open and walking away.
Discretion, dispite what anyone says has its place in relationships old and new
PeachesandCreamConcord, North Carolina USA675 posts
Good thing that's not a character flaw that I have. Course, Ms. L. Bobbitt was kinder than me if I ever catch my husband, fiance' cheating on me..there will be a piece in ever state, all 50 states...not putting that "cheating hotdog" back together again...EVER!!! Love you Baby #28 more days..
I have always enjoyed your posts. Cheating is just that, cheating. Forgiveness is less an issue than establishing, or reestablishing emotional trust. Without emotional trust, there can be no love. Intellectually, we may forgive, but the heart begs to differ.
man and women are just different i guess. woman are more emotional so they want to make it work more than men. id never get back with a girl that cheated on me though, just because it shows they lost interest in you and will do it again.
Cheating can be incurable. Chances are your partner will do it again. I think it’s a form of a emotional and mental illness based around personal insecurities.
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