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Jun 4, 2007 10:34 AM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
Ojazos
OjazosOjazosCancun, Quintana Roo Mexico98 Threads 2,894 Posts
i have talked with some men that has been cheated by their wives....whats wrong with that????...in mexico men cheats the woman.....I mean...is kind of culture thing.....if you cheat woman.....we forgive you.....if woman cheats you.....you divorce....why????
you dont know how to forgive ??????confused dunno moping blues
(im not a cheater!)
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Jun 4, 2007 10:37 AM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Simple.......... male pride!!!! But, let's face it, pride comes before a fall, doesn't it??
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Jun 4, 2007 10:37 AM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
Shinedown7593
Shinedown7593Shinedown7593Roseville, USA47 Threads 667 Posts
Umm. Cheating is cheating no matter what. i do not know about this whole culture thing but there is no forgiveness for something like that. That is the ultimate act of selfishness no matter who does it.
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Jun 4, 2007 10:39 AM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
bookumdanom1
bookumdanom1bookumdanom1Corinth, Mississippi USA2 Threads 1,262 Posts
Sure, once....shame on her!!scold

Twice...shame on me!!scold dunno sigh
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Jun 4, 2007 10:41 AM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
Ojazos
OjazosOjazosCancun, Quintana Roo Mexico98 Threads 2,894 Posts
thats no fare!!!....you are so macho man.....scold professor
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Jun 4, 2007 10:45 AM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
Harleyquinn
HarleyquinnHarleyquinnBetwixt the stix, Illinois USA10 Threads 1,707 Posts
Either way, it's GROSSLY disrespectful!








SHANTI
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Jun 4, 2007 10:50 AM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
sweetykat
sweetykatsweetykatLakeland, Florida USA30 Threads 1,635 Posts
I was cheated on by my ex hubby more than once, one i didn't find out til later, the other i forgave the last one CYa!!! I never cheated on him i can forgive once but if he does it again, i'm gone.

but after this last one i don't think i can forgive anymore, all it would take is once and i walk, i have a zero tolerance for BS these days.
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Jun 4, 2007 10:54 AM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
bookumdanom1
bookumdanom1bookumdanom1Corinth, Mississippi USA2 Threads 1,262 Posts
laugh blushing Well...thank you,girl!!hug I appreciate that,but it really doesn't matter if you're an "Adonis" with the body of a god and the face of a Brad Pitt??dunno

If someone's gonna cheat...they're gonna cheat!! And, there's not a damn thing you can do about it....that,to me, is a self respect issue that they have and not you....


...you know what I mean?dunno wave
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Jun 4, 2007 10:56 AM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
Ojazos
OjazosOjazosCancun, Quintana Roo Mexico98 Threads 2,894 Posts
yes....selfrespect....loyal to your self value
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Jun 4, 2007 12:10 PM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
Hola Ojazos. If a man cheats it's out of curiosity or bad habit. When the woman does it it's because she's had it and is no longer interested in continuing the relationship, generally speaking, I'm sure of exceptions on both ends.
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Jun 4, 2007 12:53 PM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
dakwa
dakwadakwatulsa, Oklahoma USA8 Threads 226 Posts
Sorry I have to disagree. If either cheats, that is something that shows how little they actually care for you. If the woman cannot expect her man to be honest and loyal to her, then why should she be with him? And by the same reasoning, why should a man stay with a woman that is not honest and loyal to him?
Cheating is a sign that the other does not care for you enough to be with you. You're just a sleeping partner when he/she cannot find anyone new.
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Jun 4, 2007 1:00 PM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
foreverireland
foreverirelandforeverirelandnow in texas, Ireland17 Threads 587 Posts
the reason why most people cheat on each other because there relationship has gone stale so they venture out looking for something more exciting not ever knowing if the other half will ever find out but when they do its always excuses to me cheating is bad and its not right..
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Jun 4, 2007 1:09 PM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
Ojazos
OjazosOjazosCancun, Quintana Roo Mexico98 Threads 2,894 Posts
in México is.....very sad...is kind of culture to have many women....blues moping dunno
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Jun 4, 2007 1:19 PM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
Is it weakness or stength to forgive? I just dont know. So many people give up on a relationship through pride scared what others will say. Even when they want to give it one a last go. I don't know the answer to this never been in this situtation. I would like to think pride would'nt get in the way. but i think trust would once trust gone thats it for me.
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Jun 5, 2007 5:31 AM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
paulpetes1
paulpetes1paulpetes1ABUDHABI, India6 Posts
Well I have a different perspective to this, Ok I agree Men cheat woman & Vice versa, But No one bothers WHY THEY CHEATED, AND BELIEVE ME OR NOT BOTH WILL HAVE A GOOD REASON BEHIND THAT
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Jun 5, 2007 5:43 AM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
kong21474
kong21474kong21474Slidell, Louisiana USA4 Threads 176 Posts
In response to "Is it weakness or Strength to forgive?" Leave them for good, then forgive them, that is as strong as it gets.wave Then just be thier friend, nothing else ! That will really blow thier mind! Forgive them for they know not what they do-angel
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Jun 5, 2007 5:47 AM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
Aircon
AirconAirconLiverpool, UK17 Threads 1,442 Posts
Wow...that sounds such a cool take on things. peace
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Jun 5, 2007 6:01 AM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
SusieRR
SusieRRSusieRRnortheast, Ohio USA78 Threads 3 Polls 2,122 Posts
Yes I know all about the Mexican culture, wives look the other way, the man always comes back and there is never a divorce.

Doesn't matter, it is still WRONG.
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Jun 5, 2007 6:06 AM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
kong21474
kong21474kong21474Slidell, Louisiana USA4 Threads 176 Posts
Can't take credit , I didn't give it , and I did not properly quote "Forgive them father, for they know not what they do"--Jesus. peace If I stepped on toes, sorry, but he was a Cool guy!
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Jun 5, 2007 6:49 AM CST I am very surprised about the men in the web...
loam1
loam1loam1johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa36 Threads 176 Posts
Let's put it this way! they found something better! at least that what in their Brain! you were in their brain like-that too
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