DONT BE SCURRED (13)
thats right pick yourself up.....Its not easy i know that, but hey we all hvae to move on from time to time........ I wish you the best of luck!!! she is somewhere out there for ya! keep your head up ;)
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thank you for giving me a slight smile on a bad day as you say....I am going to need all you guys here to help me pick up my pieces..and Ill greatly appreciate it...I refuse to lose the rest of my life to loneliness
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love sucks sometimes or should i say the lack there of but you love , you lose , you move on and try it again..one day you get it right.. best wishes to you and hope you find the one that makes you forget ur fear..
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Jerome I think you are putting too much blame on yourself.Something that is worth keeping,is worth having patients for,just maybe she had doubt,she too once felt the way you are talking,and sure we all get scared,of the many possibilties that lay ahead,but if it was what it was,then it would still be,you can't love in one breath,and then "POOF" its gone in another,love is not a light bulb,you can't just turn it on and off.
If you have been honest and have expressed you feeling and given her reason for your doubt,and she is still not willing,its in my opion that maybe it just wasn't meant to be,and that it is not just you who is the one that is scared,butthat she too is,and this is just a avenue for her to back out.
And not for a second are you to give up on being happy,and being in a realtionship,but take what you have learned from this when moving forward and going to another level,we all live and learn and this is a lesson that you can chalk up to as experience,have your moment,grief for the moment,but life does move on,we can't move back,but we sure as hell can move forward.
Even on a cloudy day there are rays of sunshine,all the best and stay positive.
Cherie
If you have been honest and have expressed you feeling and given her reason for your doubt,and she is still not willing,its in my opion that maybe it just wasn't meant to be,and that it is not just you who is the one that is scared,butthat she too is,and this is just a avenue for her to back out.
And not for a second are you to give up on being happy,and being in a realtionship,but take what you have learned from this when moving forward and going to another level,we all live and learn and this is a lesson that you can chalk up to as experience,have your moment,grief for the moment,but life does move on,we can't move back,but we sure as hell can move forward.
Even on a cloudy day there are rays of sunshine,all the best and stay positive.
Cherie
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you know that is what friends are for... we are all here to comfort..... so bug humongus Hugs to ya buddy!!!! and im glad i got ya to slightly smile... makes my day better
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I'm sorry to hear man. I can tell you cared deeply for her. If she felt the slightest bit as much as you do/did, then she'll come back. If not, it must not have been meant to be. Don't give up my friend, things happen for a reason. We're still here for you.
Shaun
Shaun
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hey shaun how ya doing...
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this is my final letter to her....It guess it kind of gives me closure if she reads this and cant give me another chance..
Dear Kami,
Let me make my final stand LOL I know I know Im like the energizer bunny Ijust keep going and going...but I swear to pull the batteries after this:
the reason you did not see sparks and the reason this was all my fault is because since I was unsure of how I felt..then unsure if I should tell you that I loved you...it kept me withheld..It kept me from grabbing you at the airport and holding you in my arms and kissing your beautiful lips, it kept me from admiring everything about you rather than complaining that I didnt like comedy and chinese food and dancing, it kept me from being open to you during the times I was utterly quiet for hours on end, it kept me from BEING ME..the man you thought you would love the man you were sure to see sparks with! for if I were to have grabbed you at the airport and told you how I felt and lifted you off your feet as I wanted to, if I would have suggested we go see a comedy because it wasnt that big of a deal, due to the fact that I would be happy to watch any movie with you...If I would have told you that I loved you while we were intimate....if I would have sucked it up and gto on the dance floor because I knew you truley loved me and I could handle any embarrasement of my goofy moves on the dance floor.....IF i would have done all these things there would have been the sparks you wree looking for...and all those things I would have surely done if I wasnt so scarred....It was me being scarred that ruined this...and it wasnt to my suprise because I wrote a thread in connectingsingles stating that I was very "scurred" It is all my fault and if you could just imagine how you would have felt if I would have done all those things, then you would know how you would feel if you were to give me another chance....please say that you understand all this kami....please realize that this is all my fault and thru me I can give you the person who you thought I was and who I TRULEY AM......please just think about this..think really hard about this and try to use your best imagination...thank you Kami
Jerome
Dear Kami,
Let me make my final stand LOL I know I know Im like the energizer bunny Ijust keep going and going...but I swear to pull the batteries after this:
the reason you did not see sparks and the reason this was all my fault is because since I was unsure of how I felt..then unsure if I should tell you that I loved you...it kept me withheld..It kept me from grabbing you at the airport and holding you in my arms and kissing your beautiful lips, it kept me from admiring everything about you rather than complaining that I didnt like comedy and chinese food and dancing, it kept me from being open to you during the times I was utterly quiet for hours on end, it kept me from BEING ME..the man you thought you would love the man you were sure to see sparks with! for if I were to have grabbed you at the airport and told you how I felt and lifted you off your feet as I wanted to, if I would have suggested we go see a comedy because it wasnt that big of a deal, due to the fact that I would be happy to watch any movie with you...If I would have told you that I loved you while we were intimate....if I would have sucked it up and gto on the dance floor because I knew you truley loved me and I could handle any embarrasement of my goofy moves on the dance floor.....IF i would have done all these things there would have been the sparks you wree looking for...and all those things I would have surely done if I wasnt so scarred....It was me being scarred that ruined this...and it wasnt to my suprise because I wrote a thread in connectingsingles stating that I was very "scurred" It is all my fault and if you could just imagine how you would have felt if I would have done all those things, then you would know how you would feel if you were to give me another chance....please say that you understand all this kami....please realize that this is all my fault and thru me I can give you the person who you thought I was and who I TRULEY AM......please just think about this..think really hard about this and try to use your best imagination...thank you Kami
Jerome
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hey jerome i am sorry to see that you are broken hearted
but like i have learned things happen fo a reason
but like i have learned things happen fo a reason
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Yes I am a firm believer in that cajun ty
Jerome
Jerome
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Wow :/
Gotta give the guy credit, Kami
He laid it all out here for EVERYONE to see.....
Gotta give the guy credit, Kami
He laid it all out here for EVERYONE to see.....
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Thank you Arabella....Yea Kami give me some credit :)
Jerome
Jerome
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