is love at first sight possible or can you fall in love over email and phone calls ( Archived) (22)

I agree you can "fall in love" over email. But remember true love isn't a feeling it's a committment to a person for a lifetime. So it's not really falling in love over email but deciding that your personalities get along well and you become best friends. Too many people "fall out of love". To stay "in love" you must remember to think the best and treat them with love even when they are not the way you want them to be. (That all comes after "first" love though, aka initial beginnings)

I dont know how many of you have kept up with mine and tat2mania's romance for the last couple of months but he flew down from Washington and I was head over heels for him. Until he clammed up. I took it as offensive and had a total change of mind. I have not been able to talk to him since he has really left here 8 days ago but I was so suprised how different he and I were. That it crushed me in hope of finding fireworks, walks on the beach and long kisses. I think i was in love with him up until the time I picke him up at the airport. Everything went down hill from there...

Kami

I sure do wish that getting to meet in person was as easy at emailing and flirting online.

When will teleportation be invented? LOL


Let's just assume that love needs all the factors - email, phone calls, meeting, dating and knowing each other in person for a time.


And even then, love needs a lot of luck!

I'm with you girl

Beam me up Scotty!.......LMAO

Hey I'm a trekkie too don't leave without me!

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I think love at first sight is Lust not love and if it works out you're lucky. Email and phone calles ...well at least you actually get to know the person somewhat. It's the personality that you have to get along with day in day out. but a person only reveals what they want you to know ....and Mother always said you never know a man till he gets that ring on your finger(no wonder I never married)I suppose it could be vice versa. So i say it's a crap shoot either way!!!

I have been thinking about that alot lately...I have met several people that I chatted with online, and found they were all as nice as they seemed to be online, but the chemistry is not a guarantee. I have to admit, I have been very surprised, because it is obviously much easier to judge personalities online than appearances..and have been rendered speechless a few times. I have fallen into infatuation online, and had it fizzle away within days after meeting someone in person or talking to them on the phone. I find that hearing someone's voice, talking, getting to know them, and then meeting them is a much better indication of how we will get along. Suffice it to say, it remains a mystery, and I am always intrigued by mystery....*grin*

I do believe that you can fall in love over emails and phone calls. My cousin met this man online and they chatted and emailed each other every night. Finally after a few months they were able to meet and they said it was great. They already new a lot of their likes and dislikes, how they looked from their photos, they were comfortable with the emails and that seemed to take a lot of pressure off.They are now happily married and have been for 6 years and are expecting their first child. So yes I do believe that true love can happen with the starting of emails and chatting.

I think it can possibly happen for some people. I know of some it has. It happened to me. Unfortunatly it didn't work out though.

I prefer to get to know someone really well before going further. To me its not just about looks. I mean I won't lie to you all. But the person has to be good looking. NOT hot or anything but can take good care of himself physicaly and is fit and active. But its also about whats inside. His personality.

I think it all depends on the person really.

Tracy :o)