lenababiOPSanta Barbara, California USA1,746 posts
I had one when i was 17.. Last week i saw who would of been the father of my baby holding his sisters baby and it struck me hard... anyone had any situations similar??
Sorry to hear that Lena. I know that it is something that is never easy to deal with. MY cousin and his wife went through this 6 times, before they had their first child, and now they have five. I seen this first hand on how it hurts from two I do care about.
lenababiOPSanta Barbara, California USA1,746 posts
Mine was unwanted but i was excited about it..
The most tramatic part of it is i was scanning presents that i wanted for my baby shower when i ended u p collapsing in pain in the middle of Toys r us.... Then later finding out i cant have any children to top that... then last week seeing the almost father holding a baby i just couldn't take it i've been crying ever since..
I am so sorry to hear this. You sound like y9ou would love to be a mother one day. One the good side though, and I know it never seems like there is one, is the advancements in the field of reproduction sciences, they are finding new treatments all the time to help women that want to be mothers. Hopefully they will find one thaty will help you too!
I did, when I was married. It happened about 11 years ago (1996). I didn't even know I was really pregnant, until I had went to the doctor. It was sad. I never tried again, to be honest with you.
I never told anyone this story, not even my mother.
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