I've have not recieved one good message. Matter fact I've only recieved one message all together. Am i Doing something wrong. Some one help? Mt dateing life is going down the tubs.
HarleyquinnBetwixt the stix, Illinois USA1,707 posts
Hey esd2133 hang in there!
When I was 25 I had a lot more hair than you do, come to think of it I had a lot more hair than I do now ! Grow your hair longer, and while you're doing that it'll give some time for other things to happen too! Watch you'll see!
Can't expect the beachball to float over to you while you're thrashing about in the water. Learn to float calmly, quietly and while you're hovering there like a cloud in the sky, that ol beachball may just float over and gently bump you in the head. Then open your eyes and smile and say hello!
hey man it happens to the best of us i i am a single father of a 19 month old and i think that scares the crap out of women any ways here smy 2 cents your profile isnt bad you are not a bad looking guy (im not gay by the way lol)just take a better picture of your self smiling and you will do fine bro
"Can't expect the beachball to float over to you while you're thrashing about in the water. Learn to float calmly, quietly and while you're hovering there like a cloud in the sky, that ol beachball may just float over and gently bump you in the head. Then open your eyes and smile and say hello! "
Hennery took the words right out of my mouth... You cant expect miracles.....you have to let people get to know ya first mate....... Have some fun.....enjoy....and stop waiting for it to land on ya doorstep..so to speak....it takes a bit of effort....but in the end..at least if you dont get a date....you`ll have made a few new friends...
Trust me, dating isn't easy. Don't worry about what others think of you, as long as you know what kind of person you are, you'll do fine. These sites take time, and sometimes it seems as if the best person we may meet may not even be on here. They could be at a park, for instance, or maybe...a grocery store. Don't give up!
Well I've looked at your profile and you don't seem to be doing anything wrong as far as I can see. You're a decent enough looking fella (I'm a bloke btw but hey!) so I don't know mate. Are you contacting many women? Depends on what you say I guess. Most women just like a bloke to make them smile or laugh, so as long as you aren't declaring undying love in your first few mails I guess you should just be patient and keep doing what you are doing.
I get only a handful of mails from women and I'm BLODDY GORGEOUS!!! So I blame this site!! Good luck!
Don't despair, love!! Help is at hand with the Forums. If you inter-act here, people will get to know you and you get to know them. It does help to maximise your chances, ya know. But give it a wee while, it won't happen overnight!!
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