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Age really isn't an issue with me, within reason. I think I can understand why she may have lied.
I can also understand that it would have made so much more of a difference if she had of come clean prior to jumping in the sack, waiting until afterwards I'm sure would leave much more of a feeling of deceit.
The honesty thing is important. But age? how many years are we talking? A few? If it is more than a few I don't understand how you could not have noticed. And if it was only a few, after communicating with someone for weeks, then sleeping with them? In kyboshing the relationship, I would feel I was just looking for a reason.
Sure, could be a red flag. But heh? some things are still harmless. Geez, some women will lie that they are not hungry just so you can have the last piece of pie!
It's your call.