Worst way to break up? one for the men to answer (23)
AtlamSt. Julian's, Majjistral Malta21 Threads 561 PostsHere's one for the guys to answer, those of you who are brave enough to admit. But wanted to know the worst way you or 'a friend' has broken up with someone AND did you regret such bad behaviour later on?
my break ups have always been mutually agreed afairs but I think the worst way would be to get a text message
guilty!!!I guess at least the guy got an answer anyway and wasn't left in suspenders
err suspense 
err suspense you broke up with someone via text - omg. not a long term thing i hope.
No of course not only about 2 months...BUT what happened was...dont know if you guys ever experienced this, do you know how it feels when the guy does something and you go off him completely??? I just didnt want to see him agian!!! He kept texting me the day after the incident and I was very short in my answers, then I lost it and I just text him saying its over. Took it quite badly and phoned me straight away....but he didnt give up as a few months after he asked me again if he could have another chance 
The answer was obviously NO! Didn't mean to be cruel to the guy but I just wanted to get rid of him QUICKLY! He had some dvd's at my place I didnt even give them to him, I dropped them at his friend's shop. Just completely went off him....and it was his fault!!
Immaturity was the problem there.
The answer was obviously NO! Didn't mean to be cruel to the guy but I just wanted to get rid of him QUICKLY! He had some dvd's at my place I didnt even give them to him, I dropped them at his friend's shop. Just completely went off him....and it was his fault!!Immaturity was the problem there.
I consider myself a very leniant & patient person. 
But there's a limit
When i finalise a decision i draw a line & no turning back
But there's a limit
When i finalise a decision i draw a line & no turning back
The best way to break up is to say it with flowers.... I'm not 100% sure of this but I think a bunch of lilies means: 'Buh bye - I wish you were dead!' (joking - I would never do that....like I'd spend good money on poxy flowers?)
I guess there is no easy way, and ladies hate being the dumpee and prefer to be the dumper......... if you don't want her calling round to your place all the time I guess the best way is to engineer it so that she thinks she dumped you -then you can pretend to be sad and she'll be happy!
Probably vice versa works as well....
I guess there is no easy way, and ladies hate being the dumpee and prefer to be the dumper......... if you don't want her calling round to your place all the time I guess the best way is to engineer it so that she thinks she dumped you -then you can pretend to be sad and she'll be happy!
Probably vice versa works as well....
I never broke up with anyone, more like drifted away....
I had a superb nice neighbour . He was looking after his children 3 girls and 1 boy of 3 . He always smiled .. they looked very happy .
Then I heard that he was at work when the police informed him that his wife , her female friend and two men had lost their lives on the way to a lovers place on the beach 20 miles away . It was a kind of break-up ... I don't know how he kept smiling .
I don't like break-ups when one stays in a state of denial . Finish should mean just that .
Then I heard that he was at work when the police informed him that his wife , her female friend and two men had lost their lives on the way to a lovers place on the beach 20 miles away . It was a kind of break-up ... I don't know how he kept smiling .
I don't like break-ups when one stays in a state of denial . Finish should mean just that .
This from personal experience lagoona 
ive only had 2 serious relationships and was really ver in love with the last bf i had,he dumped me over a txt msg.that was very very ouch
ahh Nicola!
What a coward he was!
Guys breaking up over a text message is so lame, where's the adult in you
What a coward he was!
Guys breaking up over a text message is so lame, where's the adult in you
Read the third answer to this thread, Brunette did the same thing.....not a nice thing to happen at all...where's the adult in that?
I agree - although Brunette did justify herself as her guy just wouldn't leave her alone.
There are no nice ways of breaking up, a face to face would be preferable I guess, still when you have to go you have to go.
Breaking up with my wife was terribly sad; even when we kissed goodbye I knew we would never meet again, but part of me just couldn't believe she was leaving! 
How can a woman love a man - and kiss him goodbye?
I think women are emotionally stronger tham women........I am now in touch with my female side and learning the craft of witchiness!
How can a woman love a man - and kiss him goodbye?
I think women are emotionally stronger tham women........I am now in touch with my female side and learning the craft of witchiness!
Aarrrrghhhh - CORRECTION!
I think women are emotionally stronger than men! (the wine was talking!)
I think women are emotionally stronger than men! (the wine was talking!)
LOL!! Be thankful that you do not live in Madagascar where in some tribes the men have to wear women's clothes for 3 months to gain a perspective on the lives of women... come to think of it, wouldn't THAT be interesting if that custom were here in our world...
English males would have no problems with it as in one survey last year found that over 47% had/ or do wear women's clothing at some time...I guess the Rocky Horror Festivals there must be enormous...%D
English males would have no problems with it as in one survey last year found that over 47% had/ or do wear women's clothing at some time...I guess the Rocky Horror Festivals there must be enormous...%D
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