My friend knew a boy by internet..... ( Archived) (21)

Jul 21, 2007 2:43 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
Ojazos
OjazosOjazosCancun, Quintana Roo Mexico98 Threads 2,894 Posts
They got married...but he smokes 2 boxes of cigarrets everyday...she is getting piss of...and ask him to quit cigarret.....would you quit smoke for her?????confused dunno
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Jul 21, 2007 3:13 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Sounds like something she knew going in? Did he promise her that he would quit?
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Jul 21, 2007 3:26 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
pearl777
pearl777pearl777Plovdiv, Bulgaria242 Threads 33 Polls 4,812 Posts
no one is perfect
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Jul 21, 2007 3:29 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
Ojazos
OjazosOjazosCancun, Quintana Roo Mexico98 Threads 2,894 Posts
well....now he is just smoking one box....soconfused
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Jul 21, 2007 3:31 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Well, I suppose that he didn't go to three boxes a day AFTER they were married is a hopeful sign...
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Jul 21, 2007 3:42 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
SingYouAreAlive
SingYouAreAliveSingYouAreAliveAshley, USA2 Threads 420 Posts
laugh Sure that the opposite could be frighteninguh oh
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Jul 21, 2007 3:46 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
I would say that its unfair to expect him to change after the contract has been signed...she, I'm sure, knew he smoked...

Even if he did promise to quit, tobacco is more addictive than heroin, easier said than done...I know from experience...sigh so she is expecting him to be more than human for her sake...?

Unrealistic...scold
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Jul 21, 2007 3:47 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
Ojazos
OjazosOjazosCancun, Quintana Roo Mexico98 Threads 2,894 Posts
yes I guess that.....i have meet many guys who wants to know me, but I dont like smokers...so, better dont know them...
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Jul 21, 2007 3:54 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
My last relationship was remarkable in that regard. I smoked, she did not. Not once, in almost three years, was it ever a point of contention. She just accepted it as part of me. Again, remarkable.

Admittedly, it is the dumbest thing I do every day. I ponder quitting, and often. Would I quit for someone? I suppose a push in that direction is not necessarily a bad thing...smoking
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Jul 21, 2007 3:55 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
SingYouAreAlive
SingYouAreAliveSingYouAreAliveAshley, USA2 Threads 420 Posts
applause I like your point of view thumbs up
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Jul 21, 2007 3:57 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
Yeah...its always nice to have moral support with being judgemental...as I said...I'd like to quit too, but it's unrealistic for me to try without a support group...all my friends smoke...not much help there...
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Jul 21, 2007 3:58 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
with*out being judgemental...doh
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Jul 21, 2007 3:58 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
Ojazos
OjazosOjazosCancun, Quintana Roo Mexico98 Threads 2,894 Posts
well...love is.....love you just the way you are....and the habits you have!!!!
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Jul 21, 2007 3:59 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
ibitadustbunny
ibitadustbunnyibitadustbunnypickering, Ontario Canada14 Threads 283 Posts
That's a very unfair question since we knowing nothing about her personality, hobbies and mental state.

When it comes to wives and husbands from what i noticed with my friends is that guys won't do what their wives ask because they are upset about either how they were asked or about her attitude on the subject.

If he's not quitting for her then it's because of something she did before.
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Jul 21, 2007 4:06 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Give up those cancer sticks Robert........

Here's giving you a great big pushdoh
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Jul 21, 2007 4:09 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
sweetykat
sweetykatsweetykatLakeland, Florida USA30 Threads 1,635 Posts
If you like someone you like them inspite of thier faults, If you love someone you love them wtih thier faults.
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Jul 21, 2007 6:18 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
johnmarkus
johnmarkusjohnmarkustoronto, Canada34 Threads 1,384 Posts
It is typical girl meets boys girl shows boy she wants him than girl tries to perfect boy and relationship falls apart because is at fault. canada
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Jul 21, 2007 6:18 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
johnmarkus
johnmarkusjohnmarkustoronto, Canada34 Threads 1,384 Posts
oops boy is at fault.canada
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Jul 21, 2007 6:35 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
Rickster
RicksterRicksterNew York, USA24 Threads 3,362 Posts
Personally, I would prefer to do it for myself and no one else. If I felt that it would hinder my relationship, then I would look at the pros and cons of quitting. A longer healthier life and perhaps a longer lasting relationship or death as a result of lung cancer. This kind of death is usually the norm for those that do smoke.

beer
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Jul 21, 2007 6:37 PM CST My friend knew a boy by internet.....
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
an old country song...Take Me as I Am or let Me Go...Skeeter Sisters

If he smoked when they entered the relationship.............................
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