Trust... ( Archived) (34)

Sorry im not much of help but I do trust women until they cheat on me a couple times and yes thats because I give them chances to prove themselves again.

He is human but just has trust issues, a lot of people do. Everyone needs some type of championship. Maybe he feels that someone can help him with them. Not everyone cheats... just some... I
I trust first one of my faults...lol

cautious and trust when dating are concerned are very similiar.

Past experiences can always be attributed to trust issues.
ex: you get bit by 2 different dogs, you naturally going to trust your pwn instincts when someone says there dog don't bite.


Dating helps overcome that lack of trust or cautious nature.

and then theres this, just to show I can see further then the end of my nose...
Its a great line..
tell them you
"been burned badly before... "

wow 4 B's sentence

Really, not every woman cheats, or men for that matter. Money either, I get tired of reading about it. I have issues with trust, but more towards ornery and meaness that cheating.

I think you're right about we need to clean the slate. But, some just can't seem to do that, then they think you'll be like the person who did them wrong. Problem is for a woman who really cares about the guy, she's spending the whole time proving herself. Sometimes it's too late when the guy realizes that person was different.

Why date? Because even though most of us have at least a little issue with rust (I believe) If we can tear off the "social mask" and let the other see the real us .....it exposes those parts that can get hurt....But when the hurt doest come the happiness does....which way would u rather have it? I would rather have had a great relationship and been hurt over and over than to have never had a great relationship...Try not to take it pesonal...People change, I had to figure out it really had nothing to do with me...Then the hurt stopped, and it became a hell of a lot eaisert to date...and for that matter to trust....

People for the most part have good intentions and good hearts...They dont go around looking for people to hurt....its just a by product of their actions....good or bad, No reflection on the othert person...

Does someone elses mistakes or for that matter my mistakes make other bad? nope....Bu tit hard to come to grips with especially after we get hurt....but woth getting past...

well, being new to this i hope that there honest. but, i guess they could use it to get out of a relationship.
but, why be here then?

I said not everyone cheats..... women or men.... most everyone has issues with trust. Doesn't mean that you can't date someone. It just means you need to face it and move on. I give trust right off, that way if they do something I leave... no playing games.
So how are you doing , is it getting better for you? I have been abused mentally and physical.... trust isn't a issue. Because not all men beat their wives or girlfriends. Nor do they talk down to them. I now just watch them carefully and if I see any signs I am gone.


Mary

I always thought the same here.. I figure that she is going to pay for all time what others has done to him..

I think most men could understand that. But I guess Im wrong.