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Aug 28, 2007 8:37 AM CST sometimes.........
Icekrystal24
Icekrystal24Icekrystal24Glasgow, USA74 Threads 1,690 Posts
people experience a type of pain that nobody can relate to unless you've been there or are there.

These people go through periods of up times and then periods of very low times.

There are few if any words that will ease the pain.......all you can do is be there....hold them....and ride it out with them.........

For those experiencing that kind of pain................just know..........you are loved.........and you shall make it to the other side once again.
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Aug 28, 2007 8:39 AM CST sometimes.........
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
Be it big or small...if something is bothering you its a problem.

Sometimes you just need a ear and a shoulder to lean on.....words nil to none.
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Aug 28, 2007 8:52 AM CST sometimes.........
b_n_d
b_n_db_n_dGlasgow, USA60 Threads 3,675 Posts
Sometimes opening up to to another can help. Other times it won't change the way things are. A past love may just need time to heal. The more your hearts been broke, the faster it heals. It leaves scars, and makes us stronger. Nothing can stop the pain of missing your children.
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Aug 28, 2007 9:05 AM CST sometimes.........
Unicornelle
UnicornelleUnicornelleQuebec, Canada47 Threads 1,675 Posts
I have experienced that kind of pain..Yes I am loved by family and friends but I am a loner by nature so the only true love I know and feel is that of my son.............
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Aug 28, 2007 9:08 AM CST sometimes.........
HeartsDesire1961
HeartsDesire1961HeartsDesire1961SomeWhere, Mississippi USA32 Threads 978 Posts
cool hug
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Aug 28, 2007 9:15 AM CST sometimes.........
b_n_d
b_n_db_n_dGlasgow, USA60 Threads 3,675 Posts
Imagine you had no contact with your son. Then imagine how you would feel.
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Aug 28, 2007 9:19 AM CST sometimes.........
Unicornelle
UnicornelleUnicornelleQuebec, Canada47 Threads 1,675 Posts
Then I would like my my life alone.My son is my only true friend.
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Aug 28, 2007 9:50 AM CST sometimes.........
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
Thank you, Ice. I really needed that today.....crying hug
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Aug 28, 2007 9:52 AM CST sometimes.........
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
"The more your hearts been broke, the faster it heals"... ??? confused
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Aug 28, 2007 10:02 AM CST sometimes.........
b_n_d
b_n_db_n_dGlasgow, USA60 Threads 3,675 Posts
Was for me anyway, My first heartbreak took two years to recover. Next one maybe a year. For me anyway. I learned not to dwell on the past of failed relationships. It only holds you back. Once you realize there wasn't anything you could have done, then you move on.
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Aug 28, 2007 10:08 AM CST sometimes.........
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
That makes sense...thank you.
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Aug 28, 2007 11:50 AM CST sometimes.........
b_n_d
b_n_db_n_dGlasgow, USA60 Threads 3,675 Posts
I can see if after the last break and you stay single without dating, how that can eat at some people. I just always got in the mindset, it wasn't meant to be. I can do better, I will do better.thumbs up
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Aug 28, 2007 11:55 AM CST sometimes.........
Unicornelle
UnicornelleUnicornelleQuebec, Canada47 Threads 1,675 Posts
To be honest,I am so used to being alone with no man I dont mind anymore if I never meet anyone.
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Aug 28, 2007 12:11 PM CST sometimes.........
classicrockgirl
classicrockgirlclassicrockgirlInverness, Florida USA12 Threads 2,414 Posts
Damn it's like you were reading my mind. Something happened 9 yrs ago that I will never get over. Yes have been through counseling but it's still there and right now am at one of those low times. So thank you.
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Aug 28, 2007 12:32 PM CST sometimes.........
KnittinKitten
KnittinKittenKnittinKittenLady Lake, USA13 Threads 555 Posts
BND: I cannot remember the chronology of my heartbreaks, but I have definitely learned one important thing.

As in childbirth, with the firstborn, you can remember that it probably hurt like hell...but, if you went on to have another, you knew that you learned from the first, that you would live through it and things would be good again.

Now, men, you'll just have to take my word for it.

Fondly,
JUDYgrin
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Aug 28, 2007 12:45 PM CST sometimes.........
Icekrystal24
Icekrystal24Icekrystal24Glasgow, USA74 Threads 1,690 Posts
Thank you all for your input......I know these words were written for a reason.........I can see that they have done what their purpose is........
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Sep 1, 2007 10:32 PM CST sometimes.........
b_n_d
b_n_db_n_dGlasgow, USA60 Threads 3,675 Posts
blah grin
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Sep 1, 2007 10:34 PM CST sometimes.........
Icekrystal24
Icekrystal24Icekrystal24Glasgow, USA74 Threads 1,690 Posts
Yet another time the flipping you off guy would come in handy.............rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 1, 2007 10:36 PM CST sometimes.........
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
I'm glad this got kicked back out there. I do know this pain from time-to-time, and I thank you for this. tip hat
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Sep 1, 2007 10:38 PM CST sometimes.........
Icekrystal24
Icekrystal24Icekrystal24Glasgow, USA74 Threads 1,690 Posts
Your welcome....thank you for reading.........cheers
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